Birthclub: April 2026

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Baby carrier rejection

My baby cries everytime he's being put in the baby carrier. We tried cooling with him with a handheld fan. It worked for about 10mins before he starts crying again. What do we do?

Hi! I guess its normal as the generations now some babies dont like to be in a carrier. My first born which is 19mths now doesnt like to be in a carrier since he was a baby. Its normal 🥰

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Advice: 2u2 sleeping arrangement

I have a 19m and a 2m old. Currently the 19m sleeps with us while the 2m old with the helper. We have one more study that can be used for sleeping. Any ideas or advice on sleep arrangements for the above? Wondering how everyone manages the 2u2 with a helper alongside the sleep regression. TIA!

We're doing toddler with dad in another room and baby and mum in primary room. Been working pretty great so far as compared to both kids with mom in one room. The older one will wake or toss making sleep unsafe for baby. And I only wake for baby for easier breastfeeding and diapering. Hope it works out for u

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Relactation Possible?

Hi all, I've stopped pumping/latching for a while now (I'd say about 2-3 weeks) as it was really stressful for me, I ended up having an unhealthy relationship to the whole idea of pumping/latching. But, my maternity leave is ending soon so I've decided to give it a try once more, so that my baby has my milk in infant care too (apart from formula). So my question here is, is it possible for me to relactate? I really want to give my baby my milk eventually, and stop relying on formula. #askingforahelp #mohonbantujawab #askmommies #breastfeeding #pumping #latching #relactation

Yes relactation is possible but it takes a lot of patience and consistency so don't give up too fast! I also struggled with breastfeeding and what helped me was to latch or pump very frequently like every 2-3 hours to stimulate supply, and drink a lot of water and eat lactation foods like fenugreek or oats to help boost milk. But mummy, most importantly please don't be too hard on yourself because fed is best at the end of the day, whether breast milk or formula your baby will still grow up healthy and strong, so just try your best and if it doesn't work out also must be kind to yourself okay! 🤍

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Hey ladies, increased nt and no nasal bone at 12 weeks

I went for nt scan and found this result totally heartbroken, has anyone faced this - My Report: 1. Nuchal Translucency (NT): 5.3 mm 2. Nasal Bone (NB): Not visible/absent 3. ARSA: Present (soft marker, sometimes seen in healthy babies too). 4. Risk Ratios: • T21 (Down Syndrome): 1 in 2 (very high risk on screening) • T18 (Edwards Syndrome): 1 in 24 (increased risk) • T13 (Patau Syndrome): 1 in 374 (relatively lower #askmommies #Needadvice

Hihi Mummies, I faced this issue too, scans shows absent/low visualization of nasal bone and NT3.5mm. Doc wants me to do amniocentesis but the waiting of the results is torturing, thinking to seek for 2nd opinion and do NIPT. Not sure what should I do now

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My baby's too big??

Hi mummies! I'm 38+2 weeks now, but baby's a bit big, might need to be induced (we'll see what doc suggests on upcoming appointment). Any other mummies delivered big babies too? How was the experience? #askmommies #bantujawab #f1rstimemom #mohonbantujawabbunda #pregnancy #Needadvice

I just gave birth a month ago and was induced on my day of EDD (exactly 40 weeks). My child was estimated to be 3.2-3.5kg with a head size that is 97th percentile. Hence we were induced to try to push for natural delivery. Induction was successful (started at 10am, baby was delivered at 6+pm), and bb was at 3.5kg. Experience wise… 1) Painful (more painful as it gets more intense more quickly) so do opt for epidural or any pain meds once u need. Do not go for it too late 2) For mine, my epidural was not sufficient so I had to top up but it was kinda too late for such a high dose. I actually couldn’t feel anything to push but still manage to push by timing the contractions with the team. 3) Induced labour was scary but still glad for the quick recovery for natural delivery…

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Knp lebih ke kanan janinnya daripada di kiri ya, gerakan nya aktif,tp lebih sering di kanan,

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Confinement soup

Is hock hua or Lao ban niang confinement soup better ? Thanks #Needadvice #askmommies

Both are fine! I have seen good reviews for both before.

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35 week is 9 month

9month started or not

Week 35 is 8 months pregnant.

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Backache at week 31

Backache is real. Oh man..

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Pets and babies

First time mum here. I have a long fur cat. Hehe. I brush his fur daily and try to do deshedding weekly. There are still some floating fur around. My mom is worried that my newborn will “breathe” in the fur. Lol. Anybody in the same situation as me? How do you manage shedding fur? I’m afraid I may have less time to brush and deshed as frequently as I am now.

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can try feeding high-quality, nutrient-rich food containing Omega-3 and Omega-6 fatty acids to improve skin health, and ensure proper hydration.

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