Birthclub: December 2026

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Is natural birth still possible for big baby?

Hi mummies, anyone had a successful natural birth with a big baby? (This is my first baby.) At my 32 weeks scan, my gynae told us that baby is weighed and measured about 5 weeks ahead and told us to prepare ourselves for C-section if baby doesn’t want to come out early. But I’m really hoping to deliver naturally. Also if you had a c-section, what is the experience/recovery like? (Trying to prep myself for it as well)

Hey there! Yes, natural birth with a bigger baby is definitely possible, quite a few mums manage it, though it does depend on things like your pelvic size, baby's position, and how labour progresses. The key thing people mention is that it's not the weight alone that matters; a well-positioned baby can come out naturally even if they're measuring ahead. That said, your gynae's heads-up about being ready for a C-section is sensible, sometimes babies just don't engage well, or labour doesn't progress the way we hope. On the C-section side, I've heard it's more about the recovery than the surgery itself, most mums say the procedure is straightforward, but the first two weeks are tender and you're limited on lifting and driving. Pain management helps loads, and having good support at home makes a real difference. A neighbour brought her bigger baby via C-section and she said honestly, once she got past week three, she felt almost normal again. One thing worth checking too, has your gynae ruled out gestational diabetes? A few mums I know had bigger babies linked to that, and managing blood sugar in the remaining weeks can actually help with delivery outcomes and baby's health overall. Either way, you've got time to discuss your birth preferences and contingency plan with your doctor. Wishing you all the best!

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GDM, Baby weighing ahead

Anyone going through the same? I’m currently 31 weeks. Baby is weighing 2 weeks ahead from last scan, at est. 2.2kg. I have gdm, and I’m seeing gynae at STOCK KKH for my hypothyroidism. My levels for thyroid have been in good ranges throughout. My gdm levels elevated after meals, on diet control. Baby has been a little heavy lately, it’s hurting to walk due to the pelvic girdle pains, groin and inner thigh pain. Idk if it’s correlated to the bigger percentile. I am worried, because some gynaes are just not empathetic enough to pregnant mums. Not my 1st, this is my 3rd. If my memories serve me right, both my earlier babies were also measuring ahead, delivered naturally at 2.7kg and 2.8kg, both girls. How worried should I be? Next scan will in at 34 weeks.

Hey, I think you can actually relax a bit here, measuring ahead doesn't automatically mean GDM trouble, and honestly, your history is quite reassuring. Both your earlier babies came out bigger and you delivered naturally both times, so your body clearly handles this well. Some mums carry more amniotic fluid or just make bigger babies naturally, and especially since your thyroid levels have been stable and you're managing your GDM through diet, that's actually a good sign you're on top of it. The pelvic girdle pain is real and uncomfortable, but it's usually just about the extra weight and hormones loosening your ligaments, not necessarily linked to how much baby weighs. My neighbour had similar pain in her third pregnancy and it settled down once she got through that phase; a good pelvic physio or even just supportive pregnancy belt made a difference for her. By 34 weeks your scan will give you a clearer picture anyway, and at that point your gynae can chat through whether anything needs adjusting for delivery. Given your track record and that you're managing GDM well, I'd say just keep doing what you're doing rather than worry too much. That said, definitely bring up the pelvic pain with your doctor at KKH, they should be able to give you some proper support, and a good gynae will take that seriously.

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Nursing chair after c section

Anybody please recommend a good nursing chair after a c section?

Hi! After c-section, honestly the chair becomes your best friend, you really need something that supports your back properly while you're healing. From what I've heard around, mums rave about chairs with adjustable lumbar support and a good recline function, because you can't be hunched over while nursing when your incision is still tender. The power-adjustable features seem to make a big difference; one mum I know swears by having the headrest and lumbar support dialed in just right so she's not straining her core at all. A 270° swivel and deep recline are also mentioned a lot, since it lets you shift positions easily without needing to get up and down constantly, that's huge for recovery. If you can find one with cup holders too, that's a nice bonus so you've got water and snacks within arm's reach while you're stuck in the chair! Definitely worth prioritising comfort over style in the first few months.

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Yellowish discharge at 32weeks

Hi is it normal to suddenly have yellowish discharge at 32 weeks…tummy feels more tight and have cramps on and off

Hey mama, I'd say the tightness and cramps are pretty common at 32 weeks, most mums around this stage talk about Braxton Hicks, which is basically your uterus practising for labour, so nothing to panic about. The yellowish discharge is a bit trickier though, because it can just be normal increased discharge (which happens a lot in pregnancy), but it can also sometimes signal the start of your mucus plug coming away, especially if it's paired with cramping. Since you're not at term yet, I'd really get this checked out with your doctor or midwife sooner rather than later, they can do a quick swab or check to rule out infection or anything else that needs attention, and it'll give you proper peace of mind. Better safe, right?

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Anyone had Covid while pregnant?

Just tested positive for Covid. Does it affect fetus?

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Sore throat, fever, flu from haze

Hi, I researched online that propolis is not allowed to be taken during pregnancy? Any idea which meds are safe for sore throat particularly? Thank you!

Hi mum, this one better not wait, please go see a doctor or A&E now, especially with fever during pregnancy. A doctor can check what's going on and give you medicine that's safe for you and baby, so don't rely on what you find online. Take care of yourself.

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Hi all! Anyone been with Dr Serene Thain at KKH? I am seeing her for the first time 2 weeks later, thinking if I have made a right choice. As much as I hope, I want to opt for natural birth.

Hi! I haven't seen Dr Serene Thain myself, but from what I've generally heard around, she's quite well-regarded, she's been at KKH for a long time and is a maternal fetal medicine specialist, so she's very experienced with different pregnancy situations. The thing is, she specialises in high-risk or complex pregnancies, so if your pregnancy is straightforward and you're keen on natural birth, you might want to check in with her at your first appointment about whether her usual approach aligns with that, some mums find that maternal fetal medicine doctors tend to be more cautious, which can sometimes lead to more interventions, but it really depends on the individual doctor and your specific situation. Since you've got two weeks, it might be worth asking the clinic directly about her natural birth experience, or you could always chat with her about your birth preferences at that first visit and see how the conversation goes. All the best with your appointment!

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Vertigo during pregnancy

Im at 25 weeks and vertigo is very frequent now how to deal with this i couldn’t take it anymore with all d spinning, diziness and vomitting. Multiple doctor visit and A&E already. Cause so much anxiety every single day. 😮‍💨

I totally understand how scary and exhausting this must be, especially with the anxiety on top of it. Vertigo in pregnancy is real and common, but at 25 weeks with this level of impact on your daily life, it's worth asking your PD or gynae specifically about what's causing it and whether there are safe options to manage it better, sometimes it can be helped with certain positions, hydration, or even medication that's safe in pregnancy. Have you mentioned to your doctor how much it's affecting your mental health and daily functioning? They might have more targeted solutions or even refer you to a specialist if needed.

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Affordable and comfortable Nursing bra and nursing camisole recommendation

Hi ladies! 😊 Any recommendations for affordable and comfortable nursing bras and nursing camisoles? For bras, I’m looking for the soft pull-on type without any back hooks, preferably wireless and comfortable enough to wear at home/sleep in too. Would love to know which brands you ladies are using and recommend! ❤️

Hi! Happy to help, I've looked into this quite a bit myself too. For soft pull-on nursing bras without hooks, quite a few mums around here swear by Bodily's Everything Bra, especially for the comfort factor at night; one of my neighbours actually used it for all four years of nursing her kids. It's wireless and stretchy, so you can wear it to sleep without feeling squeezed, which is really the dream when you're dealing with engorgement or just want something zero-fuss during the day. For nursing camisoles, the pull-down or fold-down styles tend to be more affordable than structured bras, and they layer nicely under your existing tops too, so you're not replacing your whole wardrobe. The trade-off is they give less support than a proper bra, but for lounging at home or under loose clothing, they're honestly brilliant and budget-friendly. I'd say start with the Bodily if you want one proper investment piece that lasts, then add a couple of simple camisoles on rotation so you're not washing constantly. That combo worked well for me!

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Single Umbilical Artery

Anyone got diagnosed with single umbilical artery? Or know of anyone that has this diagnosis? After reading online, I am abit worried about my baby development during the 3rd trimester or future development. Any tips to share?

I understand the worry, but try not to stress too much over what you read online because a lot of those sources can be quite alarmist. Single umbilical artery is something your OB would have flagged and is monitoring for, so the best thing is to follow up with them at your next scan or appointment and ask specifically what they're watching for and what the plan is. Most babies with this do absolutely fine, but your doctor will know your specific situation and can give you real reassurance rather than what Dr Google throws at you.

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