Birthclub: August 2026

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When is the earliest your gynea gave you hospital leave to rest before giving birth?

Any idea when is the earliest you doctor can give you HL before giving birth? I heard they can only give from week 33 onwards? Is there such a rule?

It depends on your condition and gynae. Not sure if your gynae is strict. Some gynaes will only issue from week 35 onwards or even later. Week 33 might be too early to issue hospitalisation leave.

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Headaches in second trimester

Hi hi! Has anyone experienced very bad headaches second trimester? I’m currently 17 weeks and I’m having headaches almost everyday even if I drink lots of water and eat a lot too

Headaches in the second trimester are pretty common, but daily ones sound like they're really affecting you. Mine got bad around that time too and it turned out to be a mix of hormones, posture from the weight gain, and sometimes dehydration even when I thought I was drinking enough. Definitely worth bringing it up with your PD or gynae just to rule out anything like blood pressure changes, since that's something they'll want to monitor anyway during pregnancy. In the meantime, have you tried rest, a cool compress, or checking if you're getting enough sleep? Hope it eases up for you soon.

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Private gynae Dr Vanaja

Hi, may i know if anyone have any experiences from Dr Vanaja in NUH? How was your labour process with her and did she do an episiotomy on you? Because from the way she explain, she strongly encourage me to lean on episiotomy and the disadvantages if i dont opt for it. anyone can share their experiences with her?

I don't have direct experience with Dr Vanaja personally, but I think it's really worth having a frank conversation with her about your concerns, because some gynae do have a stronger preference for episiotomy and it helps to understand her specific reasoning for your case. A friend of mine also felt a bit pressured by her gynae on this topic and she found that asking directly "what are the risks for me specifically if we try to avoid it" helped her feel more in control of the decision. If you're still unsure after talking to her, getting a second opinion from another gynae before your due date is always an option lah, it's your birth and you should feel comfortable with the plan.

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Tightening , nausea and barely can walk

Hi mummies, is it normal to feel tummy tightening every 10 minutes at 31 weeks? I'm not sure if it's Braxton Hicks. My tummy gets hard and then relaxes, and it's been happening quite regularly. Did anyone experience this around 31 weeks? Should I monitor it at home or get checked? Thanks in advance 🙏🏻

This one better not wait, please go see a doctor or A&E now, especially with the nausea and difficulty walking together with the tightening. At 31 weeks, regular tummy hardening could be Braxton Hicks, but when it comes with other symptoms like yours, it needs checking out properly to make sure everything is okay. Don't monitor at home for this one lah.

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Type 2 diabetes and experienced miscarriage once also got pregnant again 4 months later

Since finding out I’m pregnant again, I haven’t felt as excited as I did before. This is my third pregnancy, and I have a 5-year-old daughter. After my previous loss, I’ve been feeling very anxious and cautious. Even now at 12 weeks, I still worry about losing the baby. When I had spotting at 4 weeks, I rushed to the hospital, and whenever something doesn’t feel right, I end up going to A&E for reassurance.

I can really understand why you're feeling this way after what you've been through, and honestly, many of us who've had a loss do find the next pregnancy harder emotionally even when things are progressing well. It sounds like the anxiety is taking up a lot of your headspace right now, and that's completely valid, but it might be worth having a chat with your OB or even asking for a referral to speak with a counselor who specialises in pregnancy anxiety after loss because they can give you proper tools to manage the worry between check-ups. Your GP or KKH can point you in the right direction for that kind of support. The spotting at 4 weeks was scary, but you've made it to 12 weeks now which is a really good sign, and while I know it doesn't erase the anxiety, that's genuine progress. Try to be gentle with yourself during this time.

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Hello Mommies! Im expecting my second baby and i want to fully breast feed my baby via EP or direct latching. Previously i gave up because lack of knowledge and support, but now i want to try again and not give up! So if you could please share with your trusted bestpump, both wired and the wearable (heard momcozy is good but which model should i go for) please please please help a mommy out!

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Hey mama! I breastfed both my kids for about 6-7 months. My first journey was definitely harder than my second. Second time around you’re more chilled, you don’t stress as much. Stay hydrated and full, latch often and take hot showers. I wish before having my second one I knew about eufy baby portable breast pump, so check it out- it has heat technology. Other than that I do have some friends who love momcozy

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Any aug edd tele or WhatsApp chat?

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Hl working in retail

Im currently 25 weeks pregnant im so tired i work retail n my back is aching.i alrdy finiah using all my mc and now im currently using upl. Im not sure if i can get HL this early yet. Im under the goverment route this time so im not quite sure how easy or hard it is to get HL. Being in retail my back sometimes hurt and affects my leg whuch will suddenly jam while i walk. For me its a fall risk to n my retail store have quite a lot or sharp ended tables near to each other so what do u mummies think....

I think you should seriously look at first changing your shoes to ensure that you are balancing your weight. When I was pregnant I used sketchers shoes, and recently tried this local brand called dmk Also pregnancy belt can really help to support the belly too. Financially can you afford to leave your job? That’s the main consideration imo

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Hi, does anyone has experience with Dr Ada Ng? I’m trying to search for a private gynae at KKH and would like to know the experiences with her and also her stitching skills for v delivery. Thanks!

Hi just to share dr Ada ng has resigned from kkh and her last date is 31 July 2026. So if your edd is after, would advise you look for another gynae or you can follow her to private. I believe in her new practice she can deliver at mount Alvernia and TMC

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Light brownish discharge at 23rd week

Hi mummies ! I’m in my 23rd week pregnancy. Just experience light brownish discharge in small amounts after a prenatal yoga and a day of sneezing should I be going ane or observe for now?

Hi, there, Mom! Given you’re in 23rd week, this kind of discharge can be caused by few things, to get proper evaluation and peace of mind, contact your OB/GYN.

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