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Moving thing behind 7 months old baby right ear

Hi mummies, my 7-month-old son has a small, movable lump under the skin behind his right ear. I searched online and ChatGPT mentioned it could be related to teething, but of course, I am taking him to the doctor to get it checked. I was just wondering if any mummies here have experienced something similar with their babies?

Hi mum! From what I've heard from other parents, small movable lumps behind the ear are usually just lymph nodes, they're super common in babies and totally normal, especially at this age when their little immune systems are working hard. Most mums I know who've had the same worry got reassured at their check-up that as long as it's soft, pea-sized, and moves around freely, there's nothing to worry about. That said, good on you for getting your son checked with the doctor anyway, they'll be able to measure it and make sure everything's fine, and that peace of mind is always worth it!

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Trying to conceived

My first born was 2022 I tried second but end up getting chemical pregnancy on December 2024 Then I tried again successful pregnancy but on my 6 weeks my third one heartbeat stop miscarriage naturally I wanna try again how to conceived any advice ?

I'm so sorry you've been through this, that must be really heartbreaking. At this point I'd really encourage you to see a doctor or specialist at KKH to understand what might be happening, especially since you've had a couple of losses in a row - they can run tests and give you proper medical advice on when to try again and what support you might need. In the meantime, be kind to yourself and give your body time to recover properly, both physically and emotionally. Many people do go on to have successful pregnancies after miscarriages, but you deserve proper medical guidance rather than just trying again without understanding what's going on. Sending you strength.

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Infantcare PCF @ Blk 123 CCK

Hi, has anyone sent their LO to the ifc at PCF sparkletots at Blk 123 Choa Chu Kang? How has been your experience? Or is the MyFirstSkool outlet at Keat Hong better for the ifc? #FirstTime

I haven't tried that particular PCF outlet, but a friend's girl went to a MyFirstSkool infantcare and she found the staff really responsive and the setup quite clean lah. That said, both chains are pretty established in Singapore so honestly you can't go too wrong with either. I'd suggest visiting both in person if you can, maybe during their operating hours, because what works depends a lot on whether your gut feels right about the teachers and the vibe when you walk in. Do check their infant ratios and ask about their settling-in process too, since that matters quite a bit at that age.

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Cervix Polyps Removed at 8 weeks pregnancy

Does anyone have their polyps removed at early pregnancy and how Long does the bleeding last. I Removed 3 days ago and it's still bleeding red on the 3rd day. Went to doctor and was given pills but still nothing Change

I haven't experienced this personally, but some light bleeding or spotting can continue for a few days after cervical polyp removal, especially during pregnancy when the cervix is more sensitive. However, if you're still having fresh red bleeding after several days, or if the bleeding increases, comes with cramps, dizziness, or pain, I would contact your doctor again or seek medical advice promptly. It's always better to get it checked, especially in early pregnancy.

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week 34 & feeling moody

been feeling so down and moody & to make matters worse, husband doesnt even care how i feel. and when i explain to him abt my feelings, he brushes them off and says im being too petty & that i shud not be like that. he doesnt show me any love anymore eversince i got pregnant and started putting on weight. he even made a remark the other day about how i was lazy and always tired and not doing much around the house and instead just putting on weight. I feel so down and sometimes wish i dont have to see him ever again. like how can a person not be empathetic at all? just because im not working right now doesnt mean you have to belittle me? i still have 2 other toddlers whom i'm also looking after so im definitely tired. but this husband only sees his job as tiring and im just lazying around the house. I dont even know what to do now. How to even stay positive? 😢😢😢

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Mummies how do you increasw your breastmilk?

How to increase breastmilk and how long you took?

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wasnt successful personally

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Hi my toddler was born in feb 2023 by csec. Currently going for elective csec in jan 2026. Would like to know if the pain is tolerable? Most of what I read really scares me because they said it's going to be more painful than the first. #askmommies #pregnancy #jan2026

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yes for me both times

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C section compression socks

What kind of compression socks will you recommend for c section? Does it need to be up to thigh?

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can try TMC tho I did not wear after cs

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Have you ever getting angry and jealous when husband changes his habbit as another woman ?

He dares mention her name when he woke up in the morning and i was shocked and freezed...like thunder and felt hurt...i'm 35 weeks pregnant

What was the reason he mentioned her name when he woke up? Who is she to him? As your side of story is vague, it is quite to determine if we as a woman will get angry and jealous.

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Any mums had csect before and then move on to have vaginal birth for next pregnancy?

What's your experience?

No, i had c-sect for my first and likewise for my 2nd. Why you want to change the method of delivery?

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