Did your husband change when you get married and started to have a baby? In what way? My husband is not the sweet type and since we got married he started to be less affectionate. Being in a long distance relationship, the more he dislikes being checked or asked where he is and what he is doing. He's a man of lies, which would be about many things like he bought a new phone with no plans of telling me. I know there's no third party involve. I just miss us being together. I miss the spark, the laughters especially now that we have a child.

I really feel for you as I understand how frustration sets in when your husband becomes so reckless in his behaviour towards you and the family as whole. I still deal with issues as this with him and sometimes, he realises he mistakes and apologises, ensuring that it would not happen again and then there are times when he is the careless person as he is. I suggest, talk to him and make him realise how his attitude is taking a toll on you. Also if he is into the habit of lying then the problem has no end. Men who lie have an excuse for everything and know how to make a fool of the woman. I suggest that try to sort issues with him openly. Don't beat around the bush and discuss your problems and find their solutions with him, head on.