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For awhile I've felt lost. Not able to share with anybody. Not sure if it's my work? Or wanting to have more income? Or lack of sleep due to infant + breastfeeding? Or family issue ? Or overwhelmed? I just have the sense of fear which resulted in me doing something I never thought I would have done. Now I'm not sure how to recover from it. I feel like I've created bigger problem for myself and it's dumb. I know it is wrong yet I did it anyway... Result proved me wrong. I got scammed. $5000.00. Not alot. But it is alot. I feel even more useless now. Why did such thing happen to me? How can I recover faster and feel better? Any job recommendations that is remote? I need to recover the money fast. Any advice at all?

My primary school kid is a experiencing racism for being Indian. We are Singaporeans (multi-generation) but she’s being teased about being Indian and she comes back crying, wishing she was Chinese instead. I am at a loss on what to tell her.

i had a baby with someone. we decided to co-parenting our baby together. i've always talk to his mom and discuss about the baby. he didnt make any effort to try and i did gave him a chance like asking what's his input. either he said "i'm okay with anything" "i'll follow whatever you decide" we had an argument and we stopped talking. i told his mom that i felt upset and its not fair for me to kept communicating with her and not the father of my child. dont get me wrong, his mom is really a nice person. i just wanted him to be more involved. one day i had enough. i told his mom to tell him, either he change and communicate with me or he won't have access to the baby. i was really upset and angry, i didn't mean it at all. i am 2 months postpartum and i couldn't control what i said, yes i know i shouldn't use that as a reason. i've been nothing but nice to him. he doesn't want this baby at first and told me to abort but then he changed his mind. he wanted to be part of my baby's life. because im thinking about my baby and i don't want her to grow up without a dad, i accept him to be involved with my baby's life. but then after i outburst, he texted me. it was really awful. he said that he's tired to keep on having petty arguments with me. he said if i don't want him to be part of my baby's life then he suggested to change my baby's last name and leave him alone. all i'm asking for him to talk to me instead of talking to his mom. maybe the way i phrase it might hurt him but by him saying that it's hurting me too. it seems like he doesn't care about the baby. i can't help it but to blame all on me. because of me, my baby won't have a dad to grow up with. maybe if i kept my mouth shut and not expressing what i felt, this wouldn't happen. i've been crying the whole day thinking about this. i don't know what to do. he deleted our chat so whatever sweet memory we had about our baby, it was gone. just like that.

Hi all, i need some lawyer recommendations for divorce n child custody matters. Preferably someone who has experience dealing with high conflict divorce. No assets or alimony to fight over, just child custody + care n control

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For the past few months, my world is a living hell. I found out that my husband had been cheating my money (claimed to be paying off his huge gambling debts outside, I actually helped him to pay close to 70k). But actually he is spending on drugs/girls/gambling/feeding his worldly lifestyle. I have given him many chances to change before. He is currently in rehab now and I have given up on him but I’m not ready to be a single parent based on financial and mentally. I have 2 young kids and is still paying off our debts for renovation loan. Do you think I should divorce and go for shared custody (his family will only help out if it’s shared custody) or I should stay in the marriage for the kids but lead a separate life with him?

My boyfriend had separated from his ex-wife for 2 months when we met. After dating him for 5 months, he found out that his ex-wife is pregnant with his child. It didn’t end our relationship and because I love him, I let him be a father to his child. Now, the baby is 3 months old and my boyfriend has been spending more time with them. I think he’s falling back in love with his ex but every time I ask him, he would say he’s only there for their child. Should I trust him or should I just end our relationship and save myself from getting hurt?

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