Been married for 4 years. We have 1 year old child. My husband is having an a affair with his own colleague. He always lies telling me that he is working. I caught bought of them outside. My husband has parted from me and my child away from home almost 8months. I waited for him. Adviced him to go counselling and talk things out. All he decline. He just clearly told me off by messaging me that he doesnt want me and my child. He doesnt want the custody of the child. He agreed to pay $500 monthly for the child. Can i still get sole custody??