Husband in dating/hooking up apps

Hey all, good day! I wanna ask you guys about something, i caught my husband on dating/hooking up apps recently. I dont know if i'm being over dramatic or not. I was not able to see their conversation, when confronted, he admitted that he has been doing it everytime we having argument (married for about 5 years). Our sex frequency is honestly not that high, but in my opinion, he rarely initiates too. We have a 3 year old kid. When i was pregnant, i had the placenta previa condition which prevent me from having sex with him. Our sex frequency also was not that high even before we got pregnant. When asked abt the apps, he said he just did it because he was not getting enough from me. I admit I rarely initiate the sex . So my question is, is it normal that i feel so mad and thinking about a divorce? Would you do the same?

Vô danh

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Oh no, it’s not normal. It’s called cheating. You must have a proper conversation. Marriage is a higher relationship, not something he can treat casually. If you guys are less intimate and he has a problem, he must talk to you and find how to resolve, but not this.

If he actually hooks up with women and slept with them then it’s downright cheating. If he’s chatting virtually then I think it depends on what you define as cheating. Some women will be angry but will forgive but some women see that as cheating too.

I guess that's cheating.. might want to sit down and have a hth chat with him, making sure there is no miscommunication before u jump into conclusion.

yes it is clearly cheating and unacceptable. need to have a good talk with him. vice versa, can he accept it if you are the one doing it?

If you’re not mad about it, you’re abnormal. I would do the same as you did.

Uh..so he's been cheating on you? Am I reading this right?

Vô danh

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Is it cheating? It is, right? 🥹

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tha fact that he even kinda at these apps is wrong. no excuses!

Not even close to normal. Clearly cheating.

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