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My husband and I were separated and we were living separately. I

My marriage last for two years. My husband and I were separated and we were living separately. I stayed at my parent's house while he stayed with a woman that he loved. We have yet to proceed to divorce as we cannot communicate and will lead to arguement. I am not sure for how long can I wait. By the way, I have two children (aged 2 yrs old & 3 mths). He never care about the children. I need opinion. I feel lonely and sometimes I need someone to pour woes. Certain things I cannot share to my family and children. Is it ok that I can find a man that sincerely care & love me? I feel i need a love for me & my children.

not gd to jump into another relationship now. judgement may be skewed. try meeting friends, talk to a counselor... get a hobby to meet more ppl... jiayou mummy!!

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Is it a fact that drinking ginseng will cause decreased supply of breastmilk?

Oh definitely avoid ginseng if you are breastfeeding -- not only will it decrease supply, it can also cause harm to the baby via nursing. In fact there have been reports of death and defects on unborn babies due to their mothers' ginseng intake.

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Any mummies have experience to share TCM such as acupuncture and cupping while breastfeeding? Did it affect milk supply?

I did cupping and acupuncture and it did not affect my supply. Cupping helps to relieve the tiredness and was told my the tcm, it's help the blood to circulate better which I'm not sure is it true but I enjoy doing cupping.

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Curious, any mummy has lost interest in their bedroom activity with hubby? Kind of feeling weird to "exercise" when our new born is with us.

Hahaha... I feel you totally. Actually i have mood for it at all. How do you guys brung back the mood?

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What should i give my wife, a new mother for mothers day?? Help I have 1 day left and no time/opportunity to go shopping!

Give her a day off (without the kid)!

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We are planning to bring our two kids (8 years old and 6 months old) for a holiday overseas this December .. Don't wanna go to countries that are having cold /winter season as of now cos my 6 months old has sensitive nose. So countries like Korea , Hong Kong , Taiwan (rainy season) etc are not in out travel list for dec (will be next year). Besides Australia and New Zealand , any good recommendation for nice family overseas trip?

I'm willing to travel to anywhere! :) thanks for your recommendation and keep the suggestions coming !

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I feel like I'm drifting further and further away from my husband. It's like suddenly he's a total stranger and I can't find that love for him anymore. This scares me alot on what may happen to us...he doesnt like to talk and to be honest, I am just so tired.

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Communication is the key to any relationships. Even if it's just a small talk, a little appreciation and encouragement goes a long way.

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Mil requested to stay with us. She love our baby very much and she love his son also. She said she can help us taking care baby. Help us doing some house chores and cook meal for us. I really appreciated but I found that my role has been taken as she love both of them too much. My husband will take her mom as first place too as she really love him so much since young. Should I reject?? As I foresee it may have family issue in future. How should i reject? what should i do so that won't be the bad person to make the decision and won't spoilt the relation between my hubby and mil?

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My husband & I had been separated for five months and we are living separately. I stay with my parents. He stays with a woman that he loved. Our separation is because of personal reasons. I had two children. He never ask about the children (aged 2yrs & 3 mths). I am just feeling lonely. Is it ok that I can look out for a man that is sincerely to know & me?

Hey if he is cheating on you and separated. I will say just go for it.. ignore all the social stigma. You have a family to run and if having another man or a FBuddy makes you happy, just go for it. At the end of the day you need to make yourself happy so you can care for your kids and manage the household.

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Those staying with in laws and with helper. How is their relationship? My mil is those traditional type and very hard to get along with. Previous helpers all left becos of her. My r/s with mil isn't that good either and will often quarrel becos of helper. We try not to communicate if possible. Trying to keep my sanity here.

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It's difficult since your relationship with your MIL isn't on good terms in the first place, which makes it doubly hard when communicating on issues regarding the helper Since you hired the helper, the helper should listen to your instructions so she isn't obliged to listen to your MIL. The best solution is to move out, but if not, try to have a good discussion with your MIL. It's not healthy to be living in this tense atmosphere.

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