Curious, any mummy has lost interest in their bedroom activity with hubby? Kind of feeling weird to "exercise" when our new born is with us.

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What you're feeling is totally natural. Many new mums feel strange having sex in the same room as their baby. I think it's all in our mind. Our baby will probably sleep through the night, not knowing what is going on :) But if you really feel too uncomfy, try to make some time to make love to your husband somewhere else in the house. Is there a guest room? You can keep your baby monitor with you. Another way is to plan for a sex-cation! This can turn out to be a pretty hot and fun night for the both of (recommend it when you first have sex after a long time)! Have a great time, don't think too much, and enjoy yourself, mummy! You definitely deserve it.

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Usually for the first 3 months, i limited bedroom activity to focus on baby. Entertaining husband once in while but just lightly. I am glad my hubby understood and patience. Then i would slowly be prepared mentally and physically for him. I'd say it takes about 6-7 months post delivery, for me to be comfortable making love again. So my advice is: take thing slow and steady, maintain your sweetness to each other, and help your hubby to seduce you (coz he may think old previous ways still work on you). If it is weird the baby in the room, just find other place, it's your house anyway! (Unless living with in laws,hehehe)

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yes... too. i think the mummy duties has taken such a big of us plus am a working mum, i really not so keen in that activity. i miss my sleep more... :( somemore, it's so dry down there due to bf so it's more uncomfy... even with lubricant, it only helps with the wetness but not the interest. still we manage to get the deed done

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I am guessing you are a co sleeping couple - well, for first six months, your baby is mostly in deep slumber and so probably oblivious to your couple time activities. So would not feel weird. :)

Exactly what im experiencing right now. We are co sleeping and the baby doesnt sleep at night. At day time im so sleepy to do anything and still have to care for the baby. 😊

Hahaha... I feel you totally. Actually i have mood for it at all. How do you guys brung back the mood?

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walking away and having couple time :)