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Saya pregnant 5minggu , pun same saye xnk bgthu mertua sampai bersalin sebabnya mertua anggap saye & anak beban kan suami @ anak diaPernah dia paksa saye kerja sbb saue nk sekolahkan anak sulung, sampai saye keguguran, saye terpkse kerja wlau suami larang sbb hari2 dia dtg ambil ank sulung saye n paksa cara halusLepas habis jarakkn 6bulan pregnant lg n mmg smpai kesudah mertua cakap mcm2 keji mcm2 sampai tahap dia mngaku menantu lain je pregnant n saye xpregnant pun smpai dia xmngaju saye menantu n anak2 saye cucu dia 😁Lepas brsalin tu saye & biras2 bersalin serentak.. Saye mertua letak dgn tgh ruang tamu yg kene turun naik tangge utk ke tandas @ dapur ☺️ menantu lain dtg elok mrrtua msak mknan. Berpantang.. Bile saye? Saye bru balik hospital xsmpai 48jan brsakin mertua suruh mkn nasi lemak dgn nasi briani.. Nasib rumah djt so setiap kali checkup kuninh suami ajk balik rumah nk masakkn utk saye sbb klau suami nk msak mertu maki suami bodo dayus mcm2 lg ☺️Paling meroyan bile saye nk balik rumah sndiri sbb xselese nk tdo & mnyusu djt ruang tamu yg ade oak mertua & 5org sepupu2 suami mertua mngamuk lempar brg maki seranah kami deoan smua family besar siap haramkn saye jejak luar rumah ☺️ terpkse lah mak saye dr jauh dtg ambil kami Suami nk mrah mak dia xblh so dia mntj tukar kerja so kami pindah negeri.. Sementara tu kami pjj.. Mcm2 mertua aniaya saye termsuk sorokkn kunci kerete saye, abik anak sukunh xhntr2 balik, cara halus nk oaksa saye pergi rumah dia.. Hari2 call suami suruh suami gune kuasa veyi utk oaksa saye ke rumah nertua ( saye hntr ceramah UAI yg suami berdosa oaksa isteri pergi tmpt yg mnyakiti hati isteri wlau rumah ibu mertua) so suami x paksa sbb dia mmg tau saye mcm mnSo dh jauh sgt2 saye mmg xnk bgthu dorg.. Dorg layan saye mcm ni sbb umur kami muda & sebab saye full hw mertua rasa saye rampas ank dia dr dia lepas saye berhnti kerja & ditanggung spenuhnya oleh suami😥

Nurrul Hani · Answer

Sayang, this is serious, what youre describing sounds like emotional abuse, and being pregnant while going through this is really harmful for you and baby. Please talk to someone you trust, your mum, a counsellor, or call a helpline like All Womens Action (AWA) or Talian Kasih, they can help you think through this safely. Your health and mental wellbeing matter so much right now, especially at 5 weeks. You deserve support, not mistreatment. Its okay to protect yourself and your baby by keeping this pregnancy private if it keeps you safe, thats wise, not wrong. But please dont carry this alone.