Did your husband change when you get married and started to have a baby? In what way? My husband is not the sweet type and since we got married he started to be less affectionate. Being in a long distance relationship, the more he dislikes being checked or asked where he is and what he is doing. He's a man of lies, which would be about many things like he bought a new phone with no plans of telling me. I know there's no third party involve. I just miss us being together. I miss the spark, the laughters especially now that we have a child.

Both husband and wife change after the baby. The husband may not change as much because having a baby takes more out of a woman physically as well as emotionally. On the other hand, the husband sometimes just holds the tag of being a father for quite a while. Sometimes this extends till the baby actually starts demanding his attention. My husband did not change after the baby till she turned almost 3 or 4 years. After the baby he behaved like a carefree bachelor because taking care of the baby primarily was my responsibility. He would do most of the things where money was required like getting diapers for her or throwing g a birthday party for her. Just recently he has become a real father to her and started playing a role if a father in her life. Sadly Some men do take time to behave and rake the responsibility.