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Stay at home mamas, do you sometimes feel guilty about having your husband shoulder all of your family's expenses?

In my case, I don't, as I am earning more at the moment. He chose to quit his job to find luck in putting up the business he wanted. And even in this case, I still feel guilty buying stuff for myself. Hmf

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Do you allow other family members to get in the way when it comes to disciplining your kids?

They can correct my child like saying "that's not good". But they are not allowed to spank/pinch or punish my child.

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What are the reasons to be depressed ?

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it could be due to a lot of factors like events which caught you in surprise. or even unknown accumulated events which upsets you. do seek help if possible. talk to someone about it

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I'm having this problem. I correct my MIL on the way she is handling my LO but she does not want to listen. Things like letting my LO stand up while in a moving car. This is very dangerous and she don't get it. Anyone encounter the same problem?

Oh dear, i do not have a mother in law but i guess it must be really difficult to handle. Well, does having heart to heart talks help with the relationship with mil?

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Anyone knows what is the ceremony for house moving? What are the things to prepare?

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Roll a pineapple?

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I am a SAHM with two young kids with not much of savings. I want to file a divorce with my husband due to his indifferent in our family and kids. Can anyone please advise me where can I get a good and reasonable lawyer? I want to end everything at the soonest as I can no longer accept his bad attitude on the kids or myself.

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Not parenting related. Need advice. My 56yo dad who has not been working for a year due to heart condition and surgery went to an ATM machine to withdraw money today. However, the sun was shining too brightly against the screen and he could not see the screen with his poor vision with the new recent format. He pressed cancel button several times, took his card and walk away. About 5mins later, he checked his handphone and received an SMS from the bank stating that he withdrew $1000. He hurriedly return to the ATM but the money was no longer at the machine. He is at a lost now. Can he make a police report? Will the police even do anything such as check the CCTV footage and track the person who took the money so he can contact the person? Is it possible an honest person took it and return it to a police station s lost item? I know that 99.9% he has no chance of getting the money back, but appreciate advice whether police can accept if he goes down to make a report.

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I'm practically had a 2.5 month worth of confinement. After the first month, my mil said that she would look after my lo so that I can go for lunch. However, she imposed a restriction for me to be back by noon as she needs to die die leave home at noon for lunch. On days when my hubby is not working, he could still fetch me to somewhere further for lunch. She is also unwilling to look after my lo for more than 1.5 hours. As there is no eatery near my house, I would like to take a bus to the nearest coffee shop to eat, or call for delivery. For info, it takes me 30mins to reach the interchange and that means I have only 30mins to eat and run errands and another 30mins to travel back home. Delivery is an expensive option due to the min. Order amount required, plus sometimes they don't deliver to my place (staying near the farms and away from civilization, so not many eateries offer delivery too) Cooking is not an option because theres no ingredient at all for me to cook, and if I were to stay at home during my supposed lunchtime, she would not want to look after my lo. I don't mind cooking at home if I could babywear her, but she told me baby is too young to be in carrier, and if in stroller, very dangerous also cos she will be unattended when I cook. Asking her to buy lunch back for not is not viable as she will leave home at noon but be back at 5pm only. She also disallowed me to bring my lo out as she does not want my lo to be exposed to unnecessary germs, can only bring my lo out when she is 6 months old. She came out with a problem, I proposed a solution to her yet she rejected and asked me to think of other solutions. Today, she asked me to go out for lunch earlier on weekends as she wants to eat lunch with my brother in law, and my brother in law hopes to go out for lunch at 11.30am so as to maximize his weekends. Appreciate any solutions out there for consideration. I need to regain my sanity, haven't been out to the malls since my delivery. Don't know what to do when I return back to work. So much for asking me not to worry after I deliver as its ether grandparents responsibility to look after their grandchild, on the other hand unwilling to change her lifestyle at all. ??????

Just bring baby out by yourself, ditch her help once you get ur baby into an Infantcare.

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7 years ago, when my eldest niece was born, my mil did not allow anyone in the family to make any noise at home whenever the baby is asleep. We need to mute the tv volume (literally!) and sneeze outside the house. Whoever make a single sound gets dagger stares by my mil. During her growing up period, she was spoilt by my mil and her parents, resulting in her screaming and yelling at home, regardless if she is excited from a game or wasn't able to get what she wanted. Fast forward to today, when my girl was brought home on her 2nd day, my mil vacuumed the room when my girl is asleep and spoke loudly in front of my girl when she is sleeping. She also did drilling and knocking in the day. My niece yelled and scream outside my room and within the house (imagine shouting from the first floor for someone on the 3rd floor). Both my husband and i had feedback to my mil to get my niece and herself to reduce their noise level as my girl is sleeping. Instead of agreeing to it, she commented that my girl needs to get used to it!! I was appalled. I thought she should set a good example to explain to my niece on the need to use indoor voice when she is at home, and not to yell and scream as and when she feels like it. My mil says my niece has already gotten used to it for 7 years, so very difficult to change her. Since my girl is young, I should train her from young instead. What has the world become? Sigh.

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I actually agree with your Mother in law. We never give our baby a quiet environment from day 1 and now she can sleep anywhere, any time. It's really awesome for us.

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Is it normal to feel heavy sex drive? Like my LO is 8mths old. Why am i feeling so intimated? Any mummy feeling dat way? What's yr husband reaction?

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