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Hi, I am 7 to 8 months pregnant. Just need to rant out how I feel... I start to worry about labour pain as I decided to opt for normal delivery as I heard a lot of side effect on epidural, but I don't know if I can even handle the labour pain (I have low tolerance for pain) I also worry that how my in laws will be involving in my life. I kind of hate it when my FIL and SIL only asked about baby and how they going to pamper him when he is out. But the whole pregnancy I was taken care by my own family and my in laws they did nothing at all.. I feel really sad when they only care about the baby that's why I worry after I give birth I have no control over my own baby. My SIL, she is single and like to involve herself in my husband life. She tell my husband to ask me to endure the normal delivery without using anything anesthetic or else he have to pay more money. She is more worry about her brother spend on my labour. I just get so irritated by my In laws. I did not tell my husband because I don't want him having a hard time between his family and me. So I get myself feeling so lost, worry and sad. Sorry for the long post. I just need to rant it out.

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Ever since my lo is born, my hubby changed. He is so over protective over our lo and it is now straining the relationship between my family and him. He becomes very rude to my mum who takes care of our baby. He forbid her from bringing her anywhere and throws the gifts she got for her away. But when he is with his mum everything he allow. Problem is his mum doesn't want to take care. I told him he shld not be rude to my mum but he says I'm siding my mum. What should I do? I'm at the verge of breaking down. My family wants me to divorce him as he is turning violent.

Your situation is quite similar to mine. I understand how you feel. The best solution is to have a good talk with him. Don't think of divorce!

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My girl (5mo) seems to prefer her dad more now, always looking at him and smiling when both of us are around. She only looks at me dearly and smiles at me when im alone with her. I perfectly gets it coz daddy feeds her alot and plays with her quite a fair bit. Im glad she has the love from so many people and i really love the bond daddy has with his daughter. But what sucks is when the inlaw commented that the reason why she always look at him is becoz he is the “最亲" or "closest" person. It hurts. Esp to a first time mum who gave her all to her baby, her nutrients and full time effort at exclusive pumping and there are so much anxieties. I hope people can be more sensitive to us mothers. We dont need recognition or credit or the love back from our kid. Just no passing remarks pls.

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People do it to me too, but I don't let myself get hurt. I know that there's no one who loves her as much as I do, and that's enough for me :)

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Any suggestions on where I can take my little one in December? Planning to do a 4d3n trip somewhere overseas. She will be 10 months old by then. Where have you guys gone before? Pls share! :)

I brought my son to BKK when he was 10 months old.

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Do you feel less close to your hubby after giving birth? Really missing the romance we used to have ☹️

We are not as close as before cos of bb. I missed those days especially dating. My hubby seems to focus on bb now. He sort of treated me like invisible.

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Is there TCM therapy we can use to strengthen the womb? I keep having miscarriages.

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I just fought with my mother in law. I am fed up of living with her and i will be asking my husband to choose between me or her. But I am scared he will choose her. Any strategy on how to ensure I get my way.

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Hi mums, I have been a silent reader of ParentTown as I am not a new mum but a rather old mum. My daughter is pregnant right now and I am very excited to be a grand mum. I want to make sure that I support her well on her breastfeeding journey, even though at our time, mums did not breastfeed but we fed formula. How can I be a good support for her when the baby arrives?

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Breastfeeding is very tiring so please give her time to rest. It is also a highly personal thing in the first few days so give her her own private space to bond with baby.

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Any tips for bringing babies overseas? We are going on a 4d trip to HK. Do we have to pack medication along? If yes, what medication would be necessary? I'm still breastfeeding too so any tips on how to carry milk aboard? Thanks mummies.

My friends pack a simple first-aid kit which includes: - Thermometer - Antiseptic wipes - Gauze pads - Hand sanitizer - Disposable tweezers - Band-aids - Some medications and ointments for rashes and scratches

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Would like to seek opinion on bringing 7mo baby overseas for short trip? Like taiwan or korea? How do u convince family members that it is safe? I am confident to manage my LO together with my hubby.

u can go for goverment just pay $1

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