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Why isit that I always feel I try too hard to ensure that my hubby is happy? The tiniest thing that I say or do which may unknowing cause unhappiness to him will end up in him ignoring me for a very long time. The tiniest thing that my kids does to irritating him will also end up in him ignoring me for a very long time. He's rude to me always. Showing temper and black face. I feel sad. Whenever he does or says things that hurt me, I'm ok with him soon after and he acts as though nothing happened. How and what can I do to feel appreciated?

Was he like this right from the beginning ? Sometimes it may be his character not to say out things that he is unhappy with ... n just Keep within him

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My girl's left eye has been tearing since she woke up this morning. Should it be a source of concern?

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There could be an block tear duct. Massage the inner eye corner. It helps to open up the tear duct

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i rarely have sex with my hub.. couple of reasons.. too tired with kids and wk. I know i prob not fair to him? Am i normal? sigh..

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Would you stick to a partner who doesn't want to work but is faithful to you?

Depende, mag try Mag business po siya sa na pwede sa bahay lang at least nakaka help pa rin sayo

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Sexless marriage

I am in sexless marriage. My husband saw my entire process of giving birth and never want to have sex with me in 5 months. Finally did it and now he refused again. His excuse is TIRED. I dont know but I thought guy supposed to have this needs. But he doesnt. I am so much in pain, having this marriage without more interaction other than a kiss. Talked to him what I felt and he doesnt really care. ?

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give him more time my friend took 10 months before he's willing to have sex with his wife again.

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I have a 21mths old toddler and a 6mths old baby. My Husband works 5.5days a week and he attends private school on Sundays. He is always tired. He dozes off almost every night after dinner in front of the TV. He sleeps through the night even when baby cries loudly in the middle of the night. He has little time for both kids. And whenever I told him that he should spend some time with the kids his reply is most of the time 'I'm tired'/ 'you are not working, wait till u go back to work, u will know how tired it is to work'. My reply to him is 'don't you have any Father instinct that you come back home and play with your kids for awhile?'/ 'Don't you have Father instinct to wake up to your baby's cries?' We have not have sex since I got pregnant with number 2... he is afraid to have a 3rd child. He says stop at 2. I told him we can still have sex and take precaution. But he say he needs time... Am I very harsh to him?

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Trouble with in laws

How do you handle lazy Monster-in-laws who never care or bring up for their own son and yet want to be priority in his life? While I am pregnant with my firstborn (a girl), my pils told me not to expect them to ever help or care for the grandchildren as they have no time for her. While I am pregnant with second child (a girl too), my pils told my Husband don't need to tell them anything about my baby's progress as she is a girl. They are only interested if she turn up to be a "boy". It was fine all along as I never expected them to help due to the differences in upbringing; I just work while take care of my children and house all by myself. Suddenly, my pils had some issue with skin and eyes condition (nothing serious) and they expect my husband's to be on 24 by 7 standby for everything. I can understand it if they need him to accompany for checkup but they expect my husband's to turn up for every gathering or wedding dinner that they want to attend even when my children are sick with high fever. There was once my girl is diagnosed with serious digestive system issue and advise by doctor to rush to hospital if we notice blood in her stool. However, my husband choose to keep the information from me and insist to bring his parents for a regular checkup. He only informed me after he left the house, leaving to handle two sick children (a infant and a toddler). I have talked and quarrel with him over it several times asking him to look at the urgency and seriousness to priorities his time but he continues to choose to accompany them for wedding lunch/dinner even when kids or myself is sick. I am really losing hope in our marriage and wonder how should I continue with him and his selfish parents. I got no helper, nor help from everyone.

Sounds really challenging with no help from others and having to work and care for young children. Is your hub the only Son or child? Ur in laws are just like mine, traditional type. Must have a Son. Ur hub might also be sandwiched in between u and ur in laws. To them, little issue will become big big pblms. Scared of dying. Ur hub is filial but at the expense of own family. Is he open to talk about things? If yes, tell him that u r finding it v hard to cope with 2 young children and his help is v much needed. If all fails, get ur parents to help or tell him to engage a helper if he finds it hard.

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Need to rant it out. Me and my hubby decided not to do baby 1st month shower but my in laws side insisted on doing and I currently staying with at my mother house. If we are doing the baby shower we have to go to my in laws house and do and if I do my in law side, my own family side also have to do. So make it 2 baby shower. So fuzzy ler. Say what "it's their first grandson have to do." It's just 1 month celebration and I am not that pantang kind of mother. Just feel my in laws side very irritating.

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Hi mummies, I will be bringing my 10months old Babygirl for a Royal Caribbean cruise trip soon. She's on expressed breast milk and solid already. But she's allergy to eggs. So mummies whom been there before care to share what you give it to them onboard? Got porridge?

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How you feel if ur husband likes to play mahjong at least 1 a week or 2weeks once. He will plays from 8 plus till 2am. Me n my lo will be at home. Here i m working and i will receieve a msg that he send to me saying going to play mahjong. How would u react. I always wanted to spend time . But he...

Have a good talk with him...But if this is only past time, and he's just doing it for fun not with big money, I think is still OK

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