I think it's fair that you allow her to stay at your place short term and provided she does not create a scene. Afterall it is your house, anyone else should respect that. With regards to your husband, i suggest you sit him down and speak with him. You are a family, meaning the house is not just his alone but both of you. Also, be tactful when trying to bring the issue up, seems like he is really concerned over the matter.
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