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Traveling with baby that is on solid

I will be traveling with my 9 months old. How should i prepare for her food? If instant food, how should i reheat it? Is there any portable cooker? I rly have no idea so any tips would help!!

Warm the pouch or glass jar in heated water

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15 months can't walk at her own

My daughter 15 months already still can't walk at her own, but she can walk perfectly with holding our hands, is this normal? Anything can help with?

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normal. don't worry

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Pain during sex after birth

Hi mummies, I gave birth in August last year so it's been 5+ months now. My husband and I have been trying to have sex again but it's always too painful for me to continue. Anyone experience this before? Not sure if I should go visit the doctor or if it'll go away on its own.

Did you have natural birth or csect? For me csect after 6 weeks still ok so far no pain. Might check with gynae

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Can i rant here? 😭

I was a divorcee mom before i remarried. My current husband do provide for my children but never bother to have a relationship with them. He only loves his own children. Yesterday my child (from previous marriage) played with my child with my husband and the child cried. My husband started saying “you’re dumb you’re just plain dumb. Brainless.” Exactly his words to my child. I got really mad i fought with him. Am i in the wrong for being very emotional about this? He confronted me for scolding him infront of the kids and asked why am i so upset because to him he just scolded my child nothing more. I said because he called MY CHILD dumb for something very minor. His reply “u wanna start differentiating children now? Sure” if only this is just a normal relationship where i can just walk away and not look back. He thinks he did nothing wrong and didn’t even bother to apologise

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If I'm on non pay leave,will I be entitled to the basic subsides?Or if both my husband and I are temporarily on non pay leaves can get subsides?#advicepls

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Inducingnat week 36

Can i start inducing at week 36... doctor says everything is well and baby is 2.893g... need all mummies comment on this

I think it is better to wait first and also keep consulting the gynae. All the best mum :)

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Not sure if I’m too emotional

FTM here, child is 4 months + old, we live by ourselves with no live-in helper or nanny. Husband wants to travel overseas 3 days 2 nights for friend’s bachelor’s party. I feel upset about it but idk if it’s illogical to feel this way. Fellow mums, how would you feel?

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Mosquito repellant patches for newborns

Hi mummies! Can we stick mosquito repellant patches (e.g cloversoft’s) around our newborn? Not on skin but on clothes, cot etc. My area was just declared a dengue cluster and I would like to try and protect my LO as much as possible! Any recommendations? Thank you!

I paste mosquito patches around my bed (baby cosleep) so i cots will be fine. I don’t stick on clothings as I find it too direct for baby. I only started sticking patches on clothings after 1yo but it’s just me, you do you!

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SWS Care Capsules?

Hi there ! Would like to ask if any mummies eaten before the SWS Care Capsule after birth ? Was trying to find more information in SG but apparently it's more popular in Malaysia? #firsttimemom

My friend tried it after her second delivery and said it helped her feel less tired during the confinement period, though she also made sure to keep up with her other postnatal supplements at the same time. Since it seems more popular in Malaysia, maybe check with your PD or gynae first just to be sure it suits your needs lah.

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How to reject someone politely

Hey mummies..I've been blessed some toys for my kids and I chatted abit with the blesser. After I received the items and thanked her, I thought we will end the conversation. However she says want to have playdate (my kids and hers are almost same age) however I've told her it's hard for me to go out as husband works weekend too that means I have to bring my 2 kids( 1 and 3yo) to meet? She doesn't stay near me either. I told her I can't really go out. Then as our kids almost same age she knows my boy birthday is this month and she ask me what my boy likes she wanna get him a birthday gift. I rejected as I'm not comfortable we only chatted for less than 1 hour? Then she proceeds to ask again says she is getting something and asks if I want to get too for my kids..then says she wanna buy these 2 toys for my kids..I rejected her again but she says treat as cny gift..i rejected her..today she msg me again says her girls got extra for Christmas presents and she wants to give my kids. I appreciate her kind thoughts but I'm really not comfortable with such generous gesture even though we only speak like less than an hour? How do I reject her politely and to stop bugging me? 😅 Kind of annoying. She also knows im going back to workforce this year after my younger one goes to cc and she says will help me to keep a lookout..appreciate it but i don't even know her? Understand she might just want to be friends but I feel weird? Can't keep thinking is she trying to sell me something in future or what? Help pls.

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