Birthclub: April 2024

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from a concerned mother

mom of 2, how do you get your toddler, a two-year old, sleep with a family member that he sees not more than twice a year, while you’re admitted at the hospital for labour? context: dah standby kat kampung sendiri untuk berpantang di sini, akan bersalin di gov hospital, while husband kena travel 5+ hours to reach here.

Hai mama, memang tough situation ni, especially dengan toddler yang tak kenal sangat dengan family member tu. Honestly, best approach is practice dulu sebelum labour day, maybe arrange 2-3 visit yang agak panjang, let your little one spend time dengan dia sambil you nearby, buat dia comfortable step by step. Kalau boleh, tinggalkan some familiar items macam favourite toy atau baju mama dekat si kecil, and coach family member tu pasal his routine, exact time makan, minum susu, tidur, sebab consistency memang help kids feel secure. Waktu you di hospital nanti, jangan worry, most toddlers adjust faster than kita expect, especially dengan grandparent or auntie yang sabar dan consistent. You dah buat arrangement yang bagus dengan family dekat kampung, so InshaAllah semua akan okay. Wishing you smooth delivery, mama, you got this.

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Bleeding waktu pregnant 9 minggu

boleh share tak sesiapa pernah bleeding time pregnant 9weeks ? ada keluar darah merah sekali keputihan sikit macam first day period tu tapi darah tak pekat macam tu. perlu ke klinik terus ke? ni tanda keguguran ke? #sharepengalaman #bantusharing

Aiii sayang, I totally get the worry, bleeding waktu pregnant memang scary. Tapi honestly, not all bleeding means keguguran, especially if the blood is light and not bright red like period. I know a few mums who had spotting or light bleeding around first trimester and the pregnancy was fine, bisa jadi hormonal changes, implantation bleeding, or even irritation je. But I also know some yang memang had cramping + heavier bleeding at 9 weeks and doctor confirmed miscarriage, tapi biasanya ada cramp juga, not just bleeding je. Here's the thing though, since you're 9 weeks, better to go to your clinic or hospital today itself to check, tak perlu tunggu. They can do a scan to see the heartbeat and confirm baby is okay, or if ada anything else. Jangan stress sendiri at home, just get checked out so your mind can rest, okay? All the best, hopefully it's nothing serious. Definitely worth confirming dengan your own doctor to be sure.

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Tangan mudah cramp

Skrg sy 28w.. tgn mudah sgt cramp...rasa tak selesa... Ada tips ka nak kurangkn rasa cramp ne . Mudah sgt tangan rasa lenguh .#mohonbantujawabbunda

Hai mama! Aww, I can feel your worry lah. Okay so, epidural tu sebenarnya bukan untuk cegah luka czer terbuka, luka tu akan heal based on how well you take care during recovery, bukan pasal pain management. But many mums I know who did repeated czer said epidural help them manage the pain better during procedure, which means less stress on the body overall. Some mums love it sebab zero pain, tapi ada juga yang kena "top-up" sikit sebab the coverage xsufficient, it's not perfect for everyone. That said, if you don't want epidural, that's okay jugak, your anaesthetist can offer other options depending on your health and the surgery plan. The most important thing is you communicate clearly with your doctor about your concerns, your previous czer experience, and what you're comfortable with. They know your medical history best and can advise what's safest for you specifically. All the best with your delivery, mama!

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Anak sembelit teruk makan iron(ubat tambah darah() Anak usia 2tahun 4bulan kekurangan darah..

Ade x sme ngn sy..ank sy usia 2yahun 4bulan kekurangan zat besi dan kurang darah merah dlm bdan dan doc bg iron -three..so anak masuk ke fasa bulan baru ni sudah jdi sembelit teruk..bermacam2 bagi buah ape2..dan air masak bnyk tetap sembelit teruk sampai menanggis dan meneran kuat..dlm 3hri anak x berak asyik meneran sje..ti najis x kluar juga..hri ke empat najis berketul mcm kacang panjang terlalu keras dan menanggis(sembelit) Hari ke lima hari ini pun berak sembelit seketul kluar sebiji mcm biji kacang bulat 2x..last mlm ni nk berak lagi dlm pukul 10mlm tdi meneran tidak keluar So iron sy stop sendri sudah 2hri x bg dia mkn ..28hb ni dia kna ambil darah dan baru bulan 10 ni jumpa doctor pakar kanak2..apw kat situ sy blh bt?..sy kesian ank sembelit teruk..dan sy stop iron xbg..boleh ke mcm tu..sle blh tolong bantu sy supaya ank lancar berak sedia kala.. ##mohonbantujawab Maaf sy first mom #

Aduh, I totally understand your worry, constipation from iron supplements is memang very real, especially pada toddlers kecil macam anak kita. Yang penting, jangan la stop the iron completely tanpa consult doctor dulu, sebab anaemia juga serious for their development, especially dalam tahun-tahun ni. What many mums do is adjust alongside the iron, increase fibre (fruits, veg yang soft), lots of water, and some mums swear by prune juice or a bit of olive oil in the food, but the safest thing is to call your paediatrician or the specialist you're seeing on the 28th and explain the situation now, tak perlu tunggu bulan 10. They might lower the dose, change the type of iron, atau suggest a stool softener that's safe for toddlers, so anak boleh berak properly without the crying and straining. I know first-time mum worries can feel so heavy, you're doing the right thing by reaching out. Boleh also check with doctor kalau ada better timing (e.g., giving iron with certain foods) yang might help. All the best, mama!

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Breastfeeding mom

Hi , mummy sekalian . Ada tips tak cara untuk wean off bf ?🥹 anak i dah 2y4m but masih bf😫. selain letal bawang , sirap apa lg tips yg ada ? please help me🥹

Saya pun masih mencari tips nak wean off bf anak da 2tahun1bulqn. Sbb second baby tak lama lagi nak keluar dah . Org bagi tips try cari pokok bakawali atau letak limau nipis .

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Due Date February 2027

Hi mommies semua. Siapa 18w dah scan gender? Cuba share result. Berjaya atau tak?

Hai mama! Alhamdulillah, 18 minggu memang boleh scan gender, tapi kadang-kadang baby positioning tak cooperate jadi tak clear lagi lah. Kebanyakan dokter suggest tunggu sampai 20 minggu untuk hasil yang lebih confirm, sebab baby dah besar sikit dan lebih senang tengok. Kalau mama rasa excited nak tahu awal, boleh try lagi di appointment depan ye, biasanya doctor akan cakap kalau ada any issue dengan positioning. All the best untuk scan mama!

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Assalamualaikum tumpang tanya pendapat ibu2 dlm ruangan ni,siapa pernah scan kandungan usia 8weks 4days tp bila scan heartbeat bby xnpk..tpi usia dia sma dgn tarikh Last period..dan bila refer ke pac kena check jalan bawah perlu ke?

Wa'alaikum assalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, mama. Memang scary situasi macam ni, aku faham betul. Perkara yang paling penting sekarang adalah mama pergi jumpa doktor atau pakar kandungan terus ya, jangan tunggu, supaya dia boleh scan dengan lebih teliti dan tengok apa yang sebenarnya berlaku dengan kandungan mama. Doktor akan guide mama tentang pemeriksaan apa yang perlu, termasuk jenis scan mana yang paling sesuai untuk situasi mama sekarang. Mama jangan risau sangat dulu, dan percayakan kepada pakar untuk buat keputusan, dia lebih tahu berdasarkan apa yang dia lihat semasa check. Semoga semuanya okay, sayang.

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Spa yg sakit tulang bawah servik??? Pregnant kali nie sakit dekat bawah😭.. nie anak yg ke 6.. yg lain x pernah kna lagi

Hai mama, memang anak ke-6 ni lain sikit kan, badan dah tired dah kan Sakit bawah cervix tu biasa berlaku during pregnancy sebab ligament stretch dan berat baby, tapi kali nie terasa lebih obvious mungkin sebab uterus dah pernah stretch berkali-kali dah. Yang paling penting tu jangan pergi spa treatment dulu sampai doctor confirm okay, terutama area bawah tu yang sensitif during pregnancy, better check dengan doktor ye, sebab ada certain massage atau treatment yang boleh trigger contraction atau complications. Kalau sakit je, boleh try pelvic support belt, banyak rest, dan warm compress, tapi confirm dengan doktor dulu biar tenang.

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Normal atau tidak?

Anak umur 2y4m kita tahankan susu untuk dia makan. Dah jumpa doktor untuk consult makan. Tapi suami tetap suruh tahan susu sampai anak betul-2 makan. #mohonbantujawabbunda #sharepengalaman #firsttimemon

Doktor cakap apa ?

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Ada X ibu2 Alami asal mlm je lenguh dua2 belah kaki,lenguh dye xleh bwk bbincg..normal je k?

Hai mama, lenguh kaki malam-malam tu memang biasa, especially kalau selalu berdiri atau duduk lama seharian, tapi kalau sampai tak boleh bawa barang confirm ada masalah sirkulasi atau saraf terjepit sikit lah. Boleh cuba massage sikit-sikit, tarik-tarik leg, atau angkat kaki tinggi bila tengah berbaring nanti, lepas tu kalau terus-terus lingering better check dengan doktor ye sebab sometimes boleh jadi sign of something yang perlu monitor macam blood clots atau nerve issues.

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