from a concerned mother

Question

mom of 2, how do you get your toddler, a two-year old, sleep with a family member that he sees not more than twice a year, while you’re admitted at the hospital for labour?context: dah standby kat kampung sendiri untuk berpantang di sini, akan bersalin di gov hospital, while husband kena travel 5+ hours to reach here.

Vô danh · Answer

Hai mama, memang tough situation ni, especially dengan toddler yang tak kenal sangat dengan family member tu. Honestly, best approach is practice dulu sebelum labour day, maybe arrange 2-3 visit yang agak panjang, let your little one spend time dengan dia sambil you nearby, buat dia comfortable step by step. Kalau boleh, tinggalkan some familiar items macam favourite toy atau baju mama dekat si kecil, and coach family member tu pasal his routine, exact time makan, minum susu, tidur, sebab consistency memang help kids feel secure. Waktu you di hospital nanti, jangan worry, most toddlers adjust faster than kita expect, especially dengan grandparent or auntie yang sabar dan consistent. You dah buat arrangement yang bagus dengan family dekat kampung, so InshaAllah semua akan okay. Wishing you smooth delivery, mama, you got this.

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