mummy. kudos to you! i was a werking mom before deciding to take care of my peas age 1,3 and 6. i was very depress and unaccepted of my life for at least the first 10 mnths... but i slowly began to realise that its very rewarding. becos i get to witness alot of my childrens growth... i have more mental convo with them compare to my werk plc stress level are totally different when ure werking and Sahm.... but u know u are doing things the way you want things to run in the house...
at the end of the day, even so we are not paid with money,... we get paid by simple werds like " i love you so much mummy... dont go back to werk"... "i want to sleep with you tonight"... "you are the best chef!" and these simple werds are so satisfying to heart.
apart from tat .... u kids are more bonded with you. and would mostly listen to you most...
if the husband feel like you need to handle all on your own, u excuse urself... take a breather and let him feel how its like being home with kids all times.... slowly he will appreciate and give u hand when u need (i hope) ....
the next worst feeling is when ur have to go back to work.. u will feel a sense of dilema... its tough.. but if u decide to stay home all the way... hey we got nothing to loose here... 🙂🙂
all the best mummy. u r doing fine 👌🏽
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