Married with my husband coming 2 years. My lo is 15 months old. He is been lying to me that he plays mahjong n working. Lately he never come back home. For the past 2 dats he comes home at 4 plus. I msg him n call him. He doesnt bother to reply. I got so angry. I ask him y r u doing like this. I told him. U r lying. Moreover u leave your wife and lo at home. Whole night waiting for you. He is telling me that i am controlling him. He said he wants his freedom. He doesnt want me and my lo. He wants to file for divource. I ask him. Your wife and lo not important to you. Where is your responsibility I told him that your lo needs to time and love. The reply he give is oh lo cant talk. I dont understand what she want. What the hell. We got in huge argument. This is the 3rd time he hitted me. And i made a police report. n he nt happy abt it. I am so devasted and stressed up that my husband is like that. I told him to change n stop lying. He said just leave me alone and wants to do things his way. What the hell. I told him. Give me the divource paper i will sign. Because he is just good for nothing. I am a working mother. My mother has been looking after my lo when i m working. I am just feeling discusted about everything. What will you do.

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Marriage is sacred. No man has any right to hit their Wife. Babies are joint responsibility of Husband and Wife. Any woman deserves to be loved and respected. Would you want your kid to grow up thinking the way your Husband treats you is the way women and mothers should be treated? You deserve better. Now what you do next depends on you already. Think Long and hard because your choice will decide your life going forward. You are an empowered woman. You can do it.

Child needs a harmony home to grow up healthily and happily. It will leave bad impact to your LO if parents constantly quarrel and furthermore involve violence when husband hit you. Since you are working and has source of income, you can be independent and deserve better life with your LO. Be tough! *hugs*

Hitting is a no no no. Maintain your self respect and dignity. Why stay in a sham marriage? You don’t want your lo to think hitting the Wife is an acceptable behaviour. Your partner should be worthy enough for you to spend the rest of your life with him. In this case, why stay?

He hit you?!!!??😳😳🤦‍♀️for whatever reason Man should never hit if i was you the first thing i will do is divorce him my hubby always rushes to me even though he still have work drinks etc Im 8 months pregnant so he’s worried n always rushed home

Once a man hit his Wife, he will continue despite him saying sorry etc... best to file for divorce. Since you are working and your parents are taking care of your kid. You have more advantage and stronger than him. Do get maintenance money from him as well!

if this happen to me, i will just leave him. it will get worse if you stay and futhermore, your baby should feel peace at home. as long as you have your own income and not relying on him, then i just support on what you think is best.

Arguing, quarrelling, nothing much you can do there except to really talk it through, couples have to compromise etc. BUT hitting is definitely a NO NO. Seek help immediately, no one should have to put up with a violent spouse!

I didn't hear his side of the story.. I guess marriage counseling can help bridge the gap. Both must learn to talk to each other.. Even divorce, the both of you need to communicate on your LO issues.

never stay with a man who lays his hands on you! how do you know he's lying though? my hubby also mahjong siao... dont know everytime he go play mahjong real or not.. anyway hang in there mommy!