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I'm currently staying with my mother in law. I was planning to do 100days instead of 1st month because I feel have more time to prepare and would be easier in terms to booking venue and stuff. however, my mil is against the idea and insist on celebrating baby's 1st month. tried to explain to her our concern (financially) but she still kind of wants her way. don't wish to go against that because I'm worry might be seeing her black face... but I feel, baby is mine, so me and my husband should have th say instead of her. :/ I feel so not respected as my LO's parent.....

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She is not in the wrong, u are too. Because for chinese 100 days are meant for something else. As for us the current trend is 100 days. U can get your hubby to talk to your mum, but ultimately have to see who is willing to take a step back and accept the other party suggestions. All the best