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I'm currently staying with my mother in law. I was planning to do 100days instead of 1st month because I feel have more time to prepare and would be easier in terms to booking venue and stuff. however, my mil is against the idea and insist on celebrating baby's 1st month. tried to explain to her our concern (financially) but she still kind of wants her way. don't wish to go against that because I'm worry might be seeing her black face... but I feel, baby is mine, so me and my husband should have th say instead of her. :/ I feel so not respected as my LO's parent.....

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Actually what's the cultural significance or meaning of doing 100days? I understand full moon is to celebrate both baby and mother's survivals after confinement which is critical period during older days. But what about 100days? Is it marketing gimmick again? I don't do both and no plan for my next baby too. Maybe just a small reunion dinner with immediate family members to celebrate the arrival of our new member.

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In China, Korea & Japan they celebrate for 100days.