My mother-in-law took my child to the mall and made him sick

I'm so annoyed!!!!! Yesterday, my baby was suddenly taken to the mall by my mother-in-law (without my permission—I was at the office). She told the babysitter not to inform me!!! When I got home to pick him up, I found out he had a fever. She casually said, "Yeah, we just came back from the mall, and there were quite a few people coughing." Wow. How dare she... I got angry right away and told her not to expect me to allow her to see my child again if she continues to behave like this. She started crying and playing the victim. Note this down: she was the one who insisted that I leave my child with her occasionally.

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I understand your frustration and concern for your child's health. It's definitely upsetting when someone takes your child out without your permission, especially to a crowded place like a mall where there may be a higher risk of exposure to illnesses. In this situation, it's important to prioritize your child's well-being. It's understandable that you are upset with your mother-in-law's actions, but it might be helpful to have a calm and constructive conversation with her about the incident. Express your concerns about your child's health and safety, and how important it is to have clear communication and mutual respect when it comes to your child's care. You can also consider setting clear boundaries and guidelines for future interactions with your mother-in-law regarding your child's care. It's crucial to ensure that everyone involved understands and respects these boundaries to avoid similar incidents in the future. If your child is still ill, it's recommended to consult a pediatrician for proper evaluation and treatment. Keep an eye on your child's symptoms and seek medical advice if needed. Remember, open communication and setting boundaries are key in such situations to ensure the well-being of your child and maintain harmonious relationships within the family. https://invl.io/cll6she

My mil equally annoying so I will not leave my child alone with her unless bo bian, she pop by our place to visit cause she stay near. Already in front of me many times tell her not to give my child something she still give, had to force me to shout at her. Sometimes really don't wanna scream at them one leh, very tiring.. I always tell mu hub pls control your mum before I had to. Never had such issue with my mum.

Maigodddd im fuming reading this. And the fact she told the babysitter not to tell you. What else she hide from you. I would really refrain her from taking care of my baby at all. Can happily say some people coughing. Wah when baby sick its the parents that have to deal with it