cheated on me :(
Hubby just returned from a boys trip in Bintan and I snooped on his phone and found out he hooked up with a bar girl after getting drunk. I am livid and I don't know what to do. Pls advice.
My mum gave me a piece of advice that I've carried around with me my whole life: "Bend, don't break" It's a horrible position to be in and I'm so sorry you're going through it now. I would advice that you take note of what you've found and let him the first move, whether it's to confess or apologise. If he doesn't, I wouldn't immediately confront him about it. I would reflect on what I want to achieve from the conversation we're going to have. I would ask myself: - Would I forgive him? - Are there issues in our marriage that I've been ignoring or do not know about? - What are the steps I think we can take to help salvage our marriage? Remember that this shouldn't be a session for you to blame him, it's a time for you to be as open minded as possible so that you can hear him out too. Sending strength and love your way to help get you through this.
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