Having babies make my relationship with my hub further. Anyone agree?

It depends. Much efforts is needed to make a family or marriage work especially after baby comes along. Some men become even more family oriented after having a baby. They will plan activities around family and look forward to coming home after work. But most men not all though don't help out with housework. Their idea of parenting is playing with kids , chauffeuring them around or just bringing back the income. This will make wives irritated with men and make the relationship turn sour at times. I always remind my husband patenting is not about Having fun. Behind all that playing someone has to do the chores , the laundry etc so he has to help out. My husband used to be lazy with housework and he sleeps till lunch time on weekends. But after much communication from my side he is improving. So it depends on both sides mentality whether you all want to make efforts to change things and become closer as a family

Agree with Siow. Baby is an additional responsibility added to the family and both parents have to communicate about how the responsibility is going to be shared. When there is only 2 of u, it's not really a family, but like courtship even though u both are married. But when baby comes along, 3 is a family and lifestyle, time, money, effort commitments will have to change. If self is still more important than family, then at the end of the day only self will be left and no more family to speak of. If family is more important then self will have to make efforts. It takes 2 hands to clap out success or failure. U can't control the other hand but u can do ur part and he can also do his part

Yes, it tests your relationship because you may have differing ideas on how to raise the kids, handle the household, and others but it makes your relationship stronger and I must say more exciting! :-) Having kids is the best thing that has happened to us and we both agree to that. We may argue, I may nag, there will be lost intimacies and totally lost quiet moments but the kids bring meaning to both our lives. You just have to earn to adapt and prioritize.

I beg to differ. Once baby is out the relationship between husband and wife changes accordingly. From loving a husband, I am also loving him as a daddy to my children. He is still the Prince Charming to me, the gallant knight in shining armour, the hero to my children and the rubbish dump to finish all the leftovers. =) Additional roles to adapt to but it depends on both of you whether each of you can grow to accept and develop character.

Yes and No.. more apart cos we dont hug ech other to slp anymore baby is always in between us.. even baby slping in his cot but bcos of feedg n pumping i will b awake pretty often.. we tend to argue more on issues arises from taking care of baby to feeding, cos some things mil n i just cant see eye to eye. hub just mcaught in between.. but this argument in fact bring us together n make decisions together

If you are struggling to communicate with your husband due to the new addition to the family you should find a chance to sit down & have a good talk with each other to see if you both are ready to be parents. Being a parent is tiring but fulfilling. It's a lifelong commitment so do not have babies for the sake of wanting to have babies. Give birth to babies only if you love them & is willing to sacrifice

For me yes. Cos im spending the whole of my time taking care of my kids, im a SAHM. It’s tiring taking care of kids whole day so whenever my kids sleep at night, i will go to my room and have my own me time instead of spending the time with hubby. And he’s getting more and more nonsense which makes me feel irritated. And everytime i talk to him he always like memory lost. Cant rem what i said.

Nah i don't think so. Because if it wasn't for our kids i might already break up with him a very long time ago lol. You see with or without kids you will still fight and argue on small and big things that might end up to separation. But with kids on the picture you will definitely try and try and try to work things out for the sake of the kids. The kids are actually the unbreakable bond you have.

Yes for me. I feel that it has drifted us apart. I never used to like kids very much. Im not too kid friendly. However, i love my boys. On the whole i must say iam not very good at managing the whole thing. With that said, courtship is different. At times when i look at my family it gives me peace and a sense of fulfillment. No idea why though. I guess its natural.

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