Having babies make my relationship with my hub further. Anyone agree?

It depends. Much efforts is needed to make a family or marriage work especially after baby comes along. Some men become even more family oriented after having a baby. They will plan activities around family and look forward to coming home after work. But most men not all though don't help out with housework. Their idea of parenting is playing with kids , chauffeuring them around or just bringing back the income. This will make wives irritated with men and make the relationship turn sour at times. I always remind my husband patenting is not about Having fun. Behind all that playing someone has to do the chores , the laundry etc so he has to help out. My husband used to be lazy with housework and he sleeps till lunch time on weekends. But after much communication from my side he is improving. So it depends on both sides mentality whether you all want to make efforts to change things and become closer as a family