everytime my hubby goes on a work tour I am suspicious he is with someone. I asked him many times and he gets annoyed. What should I do

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I would not say that these things won't cross mind, but if you do it overtime then I guess there is something going on in your mind. Do you doubt having him an affair or a fling with? Or he had one in the past and you are not able to trust him fully? If yes, then I assume that you must have moved over it and which is why you are still with him. So, in this case, it is obvious that you will take time to rest your faith in him. But again, you cannot be suspicious all the time. This way, you are only ruining your mental peace. And if there is nothing of this sort, then you are being too unfair on yourself and your relationship. The time that you can enjoy with your husband, you are spoiling by these irrelevant thoughts. And this way, you are also putting thoughts in your husband's mind. Being alert in a relationship is fine but overdoing things is not. So, relax and build trust in your husband.

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okay, why do you feel this? has something ever happened to make you feel this way, or do you generally think this is what naturally happens when people go on work trips? see, the best way to work around this is to speak directly to him. tell him nicely what your fears are and why you feel that way. also, if possible, i would suggest keep yourself occupied so that you have other things to think of than what he is upto.

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Suspicion for no reason is not valid. If you have doubts him seeing someone then you can do the efforts to find out but otherwise doubting him always will just lead to undue stress in your married life. You must work on building trust and enjoy the time with your husband.

Any reason for the suspicion? Don't wreck your marriage over baseless issues. Your constant suspicion and nagging might actually make your husband go astray! Trust is the key to a healthy marriage. Your husband goes for work and trust him on that!

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