Does your hubby follow you to all appointments?

Currently still in 1st trimester. I went to most of the appointments by myself as I did not want my husband to worry and in fact didn't tell him when I go for some of the follow ups. Recently he was angry when he found out that I went to the appt by myself and didn't inform him (actually he won't go as well but just wanted to know). But he doesn't know that each visit is stressful for me as idk if baby is doing well or if there's anything. I didn't want to stress him out too and rather be independent.

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I went for 2 appointments by myself. I told my husband to keep his leaves for when the baby is bigger and can see more stuff during the scan… (and also when the baby is born) since I had to wait for some time before the appointment AND the appt itself only lasted for 5 mins… I’m also worried/stressed out some times… but yes I try to be independent too! Jiayou

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