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How to keep oneself happy to not think of the stress we are facing?

Think of the happy times u have had! Do things which u like. Have some me time

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What will u do if u found out that your husband went to batam secretly but when confront he says he wanted piece of mind as I as a wife couldn't give him happiness.

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Well... Depends on his agenda while in batam..

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Anyone having the same problems as me? My Husband won't really help me with housework unless I tell him many times to do it. He will then give a unwilling attitude. Ever since i gave birth to my LO, he still never change. Is like phone and tv is his wife. I got to work, takecare LO and do housework. This is totally madness. He keeps initiate to have sex but I always reject him. Reason being that I'm too tired to even have sex. Don't have the 'feel' to do it.

Solution: hire a maid

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I stay with my parents in law and send my child (2.5 yes old) to childcare centre recently. My mil became unhappy with me as she couldn't bear to see my girl go to school at such young age. The reason why I sent my girl to cc was because I couldn't stand the way she look after my girl. She would feed my girl with lots of tidbits and cold drinks (no control), let her scream and shout at home, no manners and watch iPad throughout the day. She does all those because it was the easy way out for her and she said that she's so old already still got no freedom, everyday need to help look after the kid and she can't go walk walk in shooing centres. Nothing seems to satisfy her. As my girl's cc closes at 7pm, I asked my mil to help pick up my girl close to 7pm so that they can have some free time on their own. But she went to pick up my girl daily at 3pm! And complained that she is very tired looking after her when I am at work. I raised the option of quitting my job to look after my girl, yet she disallowed as well, saying that she already has a maid at home to do chores, I will just become a tai tai if I quit my job. Basically she rejects all the solutions that we could think of. But first and foremost, she was the one who created this problem! She just wants to create a problem and ask people for solution, yet when solution is given to her, she doesn't want to accept. Is this evil mil or what?

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this situation is tough. For me. i insisted on sending childcare even though someone is there to help me care for at home. But being at home and school is two different thing!!

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Hi I m completed 8 years of my marriage we have two daughters, but we fight with each other so many times. He is so much busy with his day to day work that he has no time for me and because of this I get frustrated n we start fighting. I badly need him but he don't understand what should I do?

Pls work on your communication skills. It's necessary for both of u to realize the need to express yourself to each other. If not possible, please see a marriage counselor. A neutral person can help facilitate the conversation in the positive direction of actually understanding each other's needs instd of what sparks flares.

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Dear parents, how early do u plan for an overseas trip (taking flight) with your baby?

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Bringing my baby on his first flight out next week, he will be #14weeks

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Hi Mummies and Daddies, Any good places to send babies for swimming lessons. I have trailed Little Splashes. We enjoyed the lessons but we don't quite like the idea where only one parent can be with baby and the rest of the family member can't even watch due to the orientation of the pool

Try out dreamteam swimming, it's runned by a husband and wife team. They have a facebook page called dreamteam swimming. Look for jiawen or coach philip. Prices are good, and the couple have 2 kids of their own as well. I like them as they have a very good approach with both kids and parents. Especially their little boy who is 2.5years old and he swims like a fish. Check them out :)

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For SAHMs, what is the monthly household income for you to be comfortable?

No real definition. It depends on what you need to provide for and whether you can manage it.

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What will you do if you have a spouse who always curses even in front of your children?

Talk to him and ask him if he really wants the children to learn curses at this young age

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Did you become closer to your mom when you had kids?

Yes, sobrang mas napamahal ako sa mommy ko kasi dun ko na-feel na hinding hindi nya ko papabayaan. :)

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