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i'm gg overseas for 4 days with my 10 month old. can i bring frozen pureed vegetables (ill store it in my cooler bag for the short 3 hour flight) and then transfer it to the hotel fridge when i check in? the fridge doesn't have a freezer, but it should be ok as long as it's refrigerated right? was thinking i can just take out one cube for her lunch daily.

Your lo is still on puree at 10 month old? Is it possible to buy at overseas supermarket ? Will be more convenient

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I'm married for 2 years now. Hardly I stayed with my husband for an year, now I have a baby, I'm in my mom's place..In the past year, I have seen my husband sending text to his ex girl friend but it's not often..and there is no reply from her end..so he started asking about her to his friends..when I questioned about this to him, he replied saying he is just anxious to know if she is married or not..does it mean if he's still interested in her ? I'm worried a lot cos I couldn't guess what's there in his mind.. Please help me to figure out...

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Please have a good talk with your husband now. Don't drag it as it's unhealthy for everyone. Good luck ya!

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Any kids friendly place to bring kids for holiday ?

Perth! V kids friendly and it was easy for us to use stroller for our then 1.5yo girl

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I'm not in a very good terms with my mom since young age (6yo onwards?) things get slightly better when I grew up (17yo onwards) n start t support myself financially and I think she realise the mistakes she made and hope for a better relationship. She's a very dedicated mom do all housework, cook for everyone, even lend me a few thousands to Pay my ($30k) Uni fees while I need t juggle my wedding n New Bto expenses. Now that I'm preggy, n I quit my job. Only my hub (not earning a lot) is supporting me. We decided not to hire any Confinement lady and ask my mom for help. She's willing to help. She's definitely experienced and know how to cook confinement food. However she stays in the west and I'm staying in north west. I know it's only right to allow her to sleep over thruout the confinement period rather than making her travel Everyday. 1) I'm worried we would clash again if she stay over. We have different views on confinement rules and the way t take care of babies. 2) my hub is not really comfortable having someone else in e house overnight. If you were me, what will u do?

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I would personally just have Mum cook me food from her house in the morning and come over daily to deliver the two meals and stay for lunch and take care of baby for max two hour hours daily. And work with her on the schedule in advance - so that We can avoid conflict later

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Has anybody reached a point where you don't care what happens to the marriage anymore? The kind of situation wherein it seems like you're only together for the kid/s?

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Think it's pretty common. I have many friends like that. Never know what to advice them in such situations

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Husband & i are just married for 15 months.. Had a baby who is now 10 mos old. Im a stay at home mum & husband is always busy working (& err he's only got 1 day off in a week) We can only spend intimate time for 2-3x in a month. It's fine with me really, but my sister told me it shouldnt be like that. Is it just normal??

You should ask your husband how he feels regarding your current setup. Your husband might also be worried that you are tired so you can also share your thoughts with him.

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Anyone hubby like to use iPhone and play game than taking care children. Like taking care children is mummy responsibility. How do you overcome?

I'm seems to be on the phone more than my Husband 😂😂😂

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I've been married for 2 years with a baby now. This sounds really crappy but I've never been able to forget about my last partner. We were deeply in love and were planning to get married but the problem was that my dad absolutely objected to the relationship. My previous partner is an American which my dad absolutely detested. He even made a trip over to the US l just to tell him to end the relationship ship. During that whole period, my dad and I were constantly fighting. I was in school and eventually my dad just tired me out completely, I ended the relationship. I wanted to make my dad happy but I realised that I have never been happy since. I just felt like if I continued the relationship, my dad would never ever be happy. I just "settled" for someone who seemed like he would love me. I know that ultimately I've already made my decision. But I can't help but hate myself for putting my dad's happiness in front of mine.

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Not healthy to think of exes. Focus on your family and enjoy the precious moments

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Weekends are meant for family day, to look forward to. For me, I do not. As much as I want it to be happy, I'm not. Hubby always throws tantrum on weekends cus he jus want to slp, have peace, kids well behaved. But life is never perfect. I am tired. I wake up many times at night feeding my newborn, attending to him, while he sttn with my toddler. Yet he always shows a blackface, shouts, ignore me, rude to me, shout at my toddler when he misbehaves instead of talking nicely. On weekdays he works so I do not even expect him to help me with anything at night and let him slp. On weekends, when we go out, he just wants to faster go home n slp. And when toddler misbehaves he gets into a very nasty mood which last the whole day, sometimes it spans thru 2 weekends. Tat includes cold wars ignorance rudeness n tantrum throwing n blackface. When we finally reach hm, he scolds toddler to slp. Toddler doesn't. Toddler took quite some time to slp. He shouted. Toddler cried. I consoled toddler while attending to my newborn and told toddler in a nice manner to take a nap. He nap thereafter. Toddler n him finally sleeps. Or I shud say toddler finally sleeps since the hubby had alr slept and turn his back away ignoring us since the shouting episode. Baby cries I attended. Fed, changed diaper, cried, sooth to slp, still doesn't. Baby cried loudly but the man still asleep. I have yet to even close my eyes for barely 5mins. But there was Facebook log in and whatsapp last seen. He was awake. Didnt bother to help. Layed in bed. I cried. Why? Why can't I have jus a little help? It feels so lonely that I'm alone managing a newborn while the man happily sleeps his afternoon away and still complain he's tired. I've seen so many husbands of my friends being so nice, so patient so tolerant. Why isit that I always have to be walking on mines everyday and ensure that everytime is perfect? I'm so tired and sad. Are all husbands like this?

No, all husbands are not same. My hubby is very patient n a very good dad for his daughter.. he always try to help me from d day our lil angel came into our life. Even he cares on weekdays as well after back from office & even more on weekends.. n let me rest.. he gives her bath, changes diapers, changing clothes & oil massage as well...

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My husband is very firm he doesnt want a second child. He finds taking care of our first very stressful. My baby is only 8 weeks old. Will my husband ever change his mind or is he dead set. Because when I talk to him he seems very firm.

My husband also! In fact on one hand I want but on the other also scared. Had a traumatic labour. Maybe give it more time.. it will get better.

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