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My Husband checks out chicks when we are out together. He says its normal and no big deal. I think it's a total dick move. Am I being sensitive?

You are not. Sadly, it's a very normal instinct for guys to look at girls. My hubby does too, so I look together with him and he would turn away. You can maybe check out beefcakes and make comments about them in front of your hubby!

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Hi After so many years of our marriage we do not have understanding for each other,we fight on small issues,now a day's he so depressed for certain reasons so he get frustrated and I also feels the same so we start fighting in front of our kids,i know this is not good but situations r like this,sometimes I feel I should leave him but than I think about my kids,I m so upset. he lives in his world I lives in my world how come we make our relationship good

my hub annoys me alot at times n mks me wonder if i need to be with this person for the rest of my life. are there any good in the relationship? if the gd outweighs the bad (of coz not condoning violence and blatant disrespect) try to see the good in him ..!

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I need to rant it out.... My husband and my family members is not getting along very well.. my family members is very straightforward type and they tend to hurt my husband feeling. Especially my elder sister and her boyfriend, my husband just can't stand them and my husband have been avoiding them but still sometimes after a family meeting ~ Eg. Maybe my sister like to talk sarcastic towards my husband and say he is fat and she will laugh it off. I know she is kidding but my husband don't feel that way. He feel hurtful and will tend hold back all the feeling only to express it to me. My sister boyfriend will go directly to my husband and compared everything about him. My husband told me he is a the edge already. He feel like talking back to him and let them taste their own words how hurtful it can be. I myself can't stand his sister too. As she tend to indirectly saying alot of thing in front of my husband and she will act like very good which I feel so fake la. But I always trying to be fake back to her. The problem is my husband is staying with my family. And he will have to tolerate alot of stuff. We been quarrel alot of time over family issues. He just ask me what if I am the one staying at his house and have to tolerate. He say he just don't want me to keep siding my own family everytime when he vent his feeling out. And I hate it everytime we quarrel he will shout and want to leave the house. I am in my third trimester now and we still quarrel like that. I am tired. I can't ask my husband to tolerate if it was me in his position I sure cannot handle but I can't ask my family members to change their way of talking. I am so stuck here. Sorry for the long post.

Why not? Why cant you ask ur family members to be more sensitive and considerate towards the feelings of others? If you don't stand up for him, who will? He's feeling upset becoz he doesn't feel supported by his wife. They are your family and should play the role of one. It doesnt mean we should tolerate everything. Sometimes in life, people need to be reminded becoz they may be dense or cannot see things from others perspective.

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What do I do if there is a noisy kid besides me in an air plane?

Pls ask for a change of seats. Do it in a kind way. The mother would like to have an empty seat for the baby. Actually even airlines train their hostess to care for such mums and babies. They r given special consideration when they board the flight, like they r given seats at the far end where it's quiet or given a crèche which can be attached to the seat etc. Whenever u book tickets ask for a seat which don't have these issues.

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What are the considerations to bring 4-5 month old baby for travel? To winter country? Is it a risk that baby will find it too cold?

Buy winter clothes or better yet, ask friends if you can loan theirs. Winter clothes are expensive and you will only be wearing them on your baby and on you for a couple of days, better rent or borrow them. Bring moisturizers too. No issues, my first born grew up near the Alps :-D

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I feel that I m so emotionally dependent on my husband that whenever we have a fight and not on talking terms, I feel extremely low that I don't feel like doing anything.. I get super depressed. Also my husband is not at all pampering sorts which is one of the reasons I get annoyed with him. How do I deal with this and wat shift I do to keep myself going in such situations so that my daily routine doesn't get affected.

You have to be strong on your own. Emotional dependence of this level is crippling. Try to figure out why you seek his emotional approval at all?

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My husband is 4 years older than me,he mature enough in compare to me I think that's y we have different views On every topic and certain times we start fighting,is this true that age gap matters in Husband wife relationship

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Whats your take for husband that watches porn? And when confronted, he deny until you show him proof?

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I think watching porn is totally normal :) Volunteer to watch it with him ;)

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how to buy contraceptive pill in sg?

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Need to see doctor

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How to keep oneself happy to not think of the stress we are facing?

It really depends on what is the stress and source of stress that u are facing - stress is a v big word. If it is not something too dire, I would suggest me-time, do some things that u like, have ur fav food/drink. If it's something that can be solved u can brain storm about it. U can also go for sports or dark chocolate which will release endorphins into ur system to give u the "feel good" feeling

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