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Mummies pls advice me. I am relli veri depressed. I had a shortgun marriage. Kena pregnant before I marry hubby. I was thinking to abort or maybe have the baby but without him, but he convince me to get married cause he both love me and the baby. But the other day I was on his Facebook and I saw his message to his old fren where he say that I was pregnant, so marry me, bo pian. He say he actually want to oredi break up, but I got pregnant. So he just do the right thing. I am very hurt, because I never force him and he was the one kept bugging me to get married. I feel like just throw the divorce paper on his face. Any advice?

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Since you are already married, are yourself a few Qs before going divorce. -do u still love him? -thrash it out with him and clear everything, so both of you can decide from there whether to continue or put a stop to it. -let him do the divorce instead, why u wan waste money and bear all this 😝. Save it for ur kid. - actually u are nt losing out, married and divorce, at least u still can subsidy and the necessary benefits. (So look at the brighter side, i mean since already married. I’m the same case, shortgun and married. )

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Folks, what is the budget friendly ideas to celebrate my son's first bday. We are not planning to throw out a party to a long list of friends; rather we want to enjoy as a family and make it a memorable day. Either Singapore or abroad options are okay with us...Suggestions plz!

U may consider booking d resort at Pasir Ris. Currently having a promotion at qoo10. About, 130$ with weekend surcharge. What u need can be easily accessible

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We are trying to eat healthily and also introduces more variety of food. But I find our monthly expenditure has doubled due to this and we can't afford really. Is it true that for lower income families, you cannot eat healthy? We added brown rice and more fruits to our diet. At times, we buy organic too. But the prices are very expensive as compared to eating simply and not much variety.

No need to buy organic. Steam or boil or bake food is more healthy than frying

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I allowed my husband to have a new hobby 2 years back and I feel it has taken over our lives. His hobby is building gundams. He seems to not understand that there is limits. Am I being selfish or is he?

Well dat is men. However u can try to speak with him. Educating him that family bonding is equally important as his interest. Some men will make sacrifices for the family while some won't. It really depends on individuals. Maybe I'm the lucky one as hubby puts family above everything else. Or maybe the wife is very strict or overbearing.

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Would you be offended if your hubby let his business partner (lady) stay in your house for 2 wk?

Yes i will be too. Ask him to put himself in your shoes. What if you let a man stay in your house for 2 weeks? All your privacy is gone & you need to be extra careful with what you do in your own house. Ask him to rent a room for her or whatever. But not let her stay in your house.

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I'm going through a divorce and have a 1 year old son who is still breastfeeding. My husband just told me he wants the custody of my son when he cannot even make clever decisions for him. To him, spending time with his son means lying in bed together and playing iPad / watching YouTube. Do note my husband makes terrible plans and has bad manners such as eating loudly in public and is very lazy. After marriage he gained 20kg due to his lazines within 1 year. The only thing is, he has a high income. He say he will fight with me in court. I am planning to get a full time job and hire a helper to take care of my son so i can take care of us financially. What are my chances of getting full custody?

It should be joint custody . U would need to fight for the care and control . Most of the cases the mother will get it . If he earns a lot more , best. Get more alimony from him . U can start to calculate your child's expenses , when child starts schools etc expenses .

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For dads, is it true that all men can't pick up implied messages from their wives? My hubby and I argue about this a lot. I'm not used to bluntly pointing out his mistakes and he doesn't like it when I get mad and not tell him the reason/s why.. I get frustrated when he tells me men can't catch understatements

Can't you tell him nicely.. Use the Sandwich approach to avoid hostility

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anything to take note of bringing a infant overseas on a long journey? be it by car or by plane.. thanks in advance.

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I'm expecting my 1st in Aug and my dad has gladly volunteered to take care of my baby after my maternity leave. The plan is to bring my baby to their place before I go to work and pick baby up after. My step-mom however, is not very happy about it and insists that I hire a helper for them at their house, as I will be able to qualify for subsidied levy. (But i'm not comfortable with having a helper around a 4 mth old) What should I do? Infant care? Really consider hiring a helper? What would you do if you're in my shoes?

Actually i would prefer hiring a helper to help up my mom with caring for my baby. If not it will be too taxing on my parents.

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any mummies feel "turn off" if ur hubby says he wanna get u pregnant again during sex after you just gave birth not long ago? -feeling this way as im currently feeling worn out with 2 already-

If he says it like that, it is a total turn off. Maybe for some it is ok

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