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My spouse and i are free thinker when we got married. She is now very into thai god and amulets. Even tattooed that on body. At first i just accepted it and let her be but she brought back more and more figurines and amulets to put at the altar. More tattoos on body and some figurines look quite scary therefore our kids got scared. She dun feel anything wrong and just ignore when i tell her how i feel. What can i do?

hey! I'm so sorry to hear. I personally am in a interfaith marriage. and it's tough. all I can say is, be patient and stay strong.

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My spouse and i are free thinker when we got married. She is now very into thai god and amulets. Even tattooed that on body. At first i just accepted it and let her be but she brought back more and more figurines and amulets to put at the altar. More tattoos on body and some figurines look quite scary therefore our kids got scared. She dun feel anything wrong and just ignore when i tell her how i feel. What can i do?

When it comes to religions, it can be quite sensitive even though you are family. Perhaps you can talk to your wife about about it? Ask her why the sudden fascination over her faith and try to understand her. We fear what we don't know. Maybe after the conversation, you'll understand why maybe you won't. Either way, asking will give you some peace of mind. For the tattoos, I don't know what can be done. But for the altar and figurines, maybe you can suggest that she moves them to another room or space where the kids don't have access to as often?

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My spouse and i are free thinker when we got married. She is now very into thai god and amulets. Even tattooed that on body. At first i just accepted it and let her be but she brought back more and more figurines and amulets to put at the altar. More tattoos on body and some figurines look quite scary therefore our kids got scared. She dun feel anything wrong and just ignore when i tell her how i feel. What can i do?

When it comes to religions, it can be quite sensitive even though you are family. Perhaps you can talk to your wife about about it? Ask her why the sudden fascination over her faith and try to understand her. We fear what we don't know. Maybe after the conversation, you'll understand why maybe you won't. Either way, asking will give you some peace of mind. For the tattoos, I don't know what can be done. But for the altar and figurines, maybe you can suggest that she moves them to another room or space where the kids don't have access to as often?

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Should a single mom date even if it upsets her 7 yr old? Divorced for 12 years, and would like to go out occasionally!

That's a tricky one dear and I must say you've been a really strong woman to be a single mom for all these years. While you've surely given your role as mother the utmost priority, as a woman, I for one definitely feel that yes, you should go out and meet someone you like to be with. I understand the child's anger and hurt, and as it is also a very sensitive issue, I feel you should sit with her and ask her why she is upset. Is it because of insecurity? Please assure your child in words and actions that no matter what happens, the child will always remain the first priority. Tell her that just as she has friends, mommy also needs a special friend. I think patience and a little open communication will do the trick..All the best :)

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How many times a month should a married with kids couple be having sex? Is there a minimum amount of times a month?

No minimum. Kami ni hubby we do it as long as may chance. We’ve been doing it for 3 nights now lol

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I personally think my crush likes me back, but some of my friends are suspecting otherwise because he's more fem than me. How do I know if my crush is gay?

I think it's best to ask around or to ask people closer to him. If you're the type of person whose very frank you can just directly ask him :)

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I found sexually explicit photos on my daughter's iPhone; should I punish her?

punishment!!! pls choose between open communication or distrust. how can u punish her without knowing how it all got there? and why should u punish when u can discuss.! it's a good opportunity for u to sit her down in a relaxed calm environment and have clear open discussion. ur daughter can clearly guage that becoz u r uncomfortable talking to her thts why u chose the quickest option.... punishment. and today u punish her, she will obey but u piqued her curiosity. and the info she will search for to get her curiosity curbed is not at all good and reliable...can u trust her friends or internet or YouTube etc to answer her questions better than u? so don't punish, listen and communicate in a calm way. be her friend...that will be a more easier relationship to play than tht of a parent

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My Mother and i don't have a great relationship. Infact I would classify it as a toxic relationship. She's always been upset that I don't "obey" her and that I march to my own beat. She's a highly controlling and manipulative woman and does things to please others outside the family unit (Super Dr Jekyll N Hyde personality). The world adores her but I am not a huge fan. I feel she has been one of the most damaging influences in my life and I am grateful that I am no longer in her clutches. (We are very civil to each other, though). Anyway, ever since I had a child, my mother has been wanting to get close to her grandchild. I can see that she adores my child and wants to build a bond. However, I still keep her at arms length from my child as I am worried that she will do the same to my child. My Mother can't help but be toxic and manipulative. It's in her DNA. And no use talking to my mum about her behaviour as she is in complete denial to her behaviour, and will play the victim card, where I will come across as the big bully. I struggle with finding the right balance of how much exposure my child should have to her grandma. As I am currently letting her spend two days a month at my parents and my mother wants to spend much more time. Any advice for me?

Do not allow your personal experience based on your child hood to affect your childs and his grandparents relationship. I think you need to be fair to your child. It is his grand parents whether you like it or not. Id say once a week. Just my two cents.

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How do you convince your parents to stop being controlling after a particular age say 15?

There's no way to convince such a thing if you yourself are 15. You perhaps should get someone older who is liberal in his/her thoughts to talk to your parents. Because if you are going to put your case forward that I need a little space and do not want to interfered in everything, chances are your parents will take it in a way that will not ease the situation. I guess, make your elder sibling talk to them. And if not that, you can have a friend's mother or father (who are different in their approach in dealing with teens) discuss the matter generally over a cup of coffee. This way, they can have a different perspective about how there are other ways of dealing with teenage kids. Hope that would help.

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Division of household bills

How do you divide the household bills? Who pays for what, if you are both working.

Well most probably we will share the bills. If I earn more I pay more. After All should not be so calculative as a family

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