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Anyone has had tailbone pain postpartum? And will it go away? Its pain when i sit or when i try to stand up after sitting.

Yes I had the pain when sitting leaning back. I think it lasted more than a month but eventually went away

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Divorce after a baby

My hubby and I are in a rough patch. We’ve been together for almost 11yrs. Married for 3yrs with a 1yr old baby and been in a LDR for 9yrs. When I got pregnant, our agreement was for me to get back in shape within 6mths but it did not happen. Things got worst and now we are looking into a potential divorce. At the very start of the relationship, he did mentioned he is very particular on his partner’s outlook. So there’s no lies in this and I went into the relationship knowingly. We even had an understanding if either have feelings for another person outside of our relationship, we would end our relationship first so we don’t give each other a chance to cheat on each other. I trust him that there’s no 3rd party currently. I failed on my part as his partner but promises made back at the start of pregnancy was without fully understanding the demands of a baby and it does not help that I do not get help with baby due to Covid. We are financially alright so the split sadly to say is because of me being out of shape after pregnancy. On one hand, I really want to salvage this relationship because we’ve been together a long time. But on the other hand, it reach to a point if it means happiness for him, I’m willing to let go. I’m not sure what’s next and what’s the point of me letting it out here. Its just a shame that the split had to happen when baby turns 1yr old. I’m not sure if anyone here has been through the same thing as me and how do you move on?

It’s ridiculous enough to divorce because you couldn’t get back in shape. It’s not like a one person thing that you decided to have a baby. But based on my POV, there’s no point in salvaging. 10-20 years down the road when you start ageing, the same thing will happen again.

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What age will baby know he has been scolded

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my lo is 2 years old now. but seems like they don't really understand too. so I've changed my approach during certain situations that I needed to be firm. like frowning expressions and firmer tone to address to situation. which I then feel that they might understand by observing our facial expressions? honestly don't have the perfect answer for you but hope that helps!

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BF : Tips please!

3 weeks ago, I gave birth to a healthy baby and I've been giving mixed feelings because sadly I don't produce enough milk and my newborn prefers my milk more than formula. I was hoping to be able to provide full breastfeeding but I don't know how. I've tried buying supplements but still no results. Any tips?

Just let the child latch and don't stress. Massage more, pump more. Have you joined the bmsg fb group? They shared alot of advice and provide free of charge advice

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Choose your workout: Jogging/Running or Yoga? 💪🏻

A regular exercise routine will strengthen your heart, improve your circulation, and give your body a boost of energy. The more you exercise! 🏋🏻‍♀️

Choose your workout: Jogging/Running or Yoga? 💪🏻

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Best Nursing Bras In Singapore 🇸🇬

Here are our picks for the best, comfiest, most supportive nursing bras on the market now. 😃✅ https://sg.theasianparent.com/best-nursing-bra-singapore

Best Nursing Bras In Singapore 🇸🇬

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What is the best part of being a mother? 👩🏻

Motherhood is one beautiful blessing! Share with us in the comment section what do you think is the best part of being a mum!

What is the best part of being a mother? 👩🏻

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watching them grow up

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malay confinement

hi mummies! for malay mummies, how long do you do the confinement?

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40 days confinement.. Planning on a 10days urut. 1 pre, 9 post natal.

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redness around baby under eye and abit of eyelid helppl

Hi mummies I know sometimes my daughter rub her eyes but i will try to prevent it. yesterday my husb got notice some red areas under the eye and some on the eyelid. but today it became more obvious. anyone knows what is this?

redness around baby under eye and abit of eyelid helppl

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Skin around the eyes is probably the most delicate skin of the body. If your child has been rubbing their eyes, the area will easily turn red. Rubbing — in and of itself — isn’t really cause for concern, unless what’s making your baby rub is more serious. (Do keep in mind that fingers + eyes = recipe for infections.) It's hard to tell from the pic but it looks like little one has a fever? If so, send her to the PD asap. Red under the eye may be a result of eye infections called cellulitis, which when occurring around the eyes are called periorbital cellulitis. Have it treated quick k.

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Wife/Baby EDD Jan (Questions on confinement meal)

Hi, wife will be going through confinement from Jan/Dec(Late) and I like to ask opinions from all mummies here. For those that ordered confinement meals for 4 weeks, are you feeling sick and tired of the same menu? I am thinking of ordering from 4 different confinement meals company weekly so my wife will be always looking forward to meal time instead of rotating the same menu within 2 weeks rotations. I understand there will be extra cost but I guess it’s for her comfort level. Do you think it’s a good idea or I should just engage 2 company instead?

I think 2/3 company is good enough. You can get 2 different ones for the first 2 weeks, 3rd one for the last 2 weeks. Reviews for TMC, TianWei & Chili Padi are quite good. Perhaps you can let your wife view the menus before deciding? :)

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