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Period lasted more than 7 days

I have a question , is it normal that your period lasted more than 7 days ? Knowing that your period usually end on the 7 days but this to the extend of 10days already . I’m so confused and worried right now

Sounds normal to me. My period also sometimes last 10 days. But usually only very red blood for the first 4-5 days the rest all balance

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Trying to get pregnant

My period end on the 7 day. So i try the ovulation strip in the morning till now day 11 and it shows negative. Feel sad . Last month i just randomly try to test the ovulation strip on day 15 it was positive but i did the deed day 16 but i was kinda down that i did not conceive. So now i wana keep track on ovulation day. 5 attempts still negative now. Mummies I might not know can help me so i dun feel sad. Thnx in advance

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Cheating husband

Its been a tough week for me and i have no one to confide in. The story happens when we were in a relationship for two years and i have a son out of wedlock with him. My husband(then boyfriend)came to know someone whom he worked with at that time and at first it was only just colleague friendship which i don't mind at all since he never did any of this stuff before when he's with me. So after months of me telling him that i'm not okay with them being friends he "claimed" that he ignored her etc. So moving forward,we got married after i give birth to my son and its been 1 year plus. This week,i went thru his ipad,just randomly looking at pictures of us and our kids when suddenly i found a text that at first i find it hard to believe cause yes the way the text read is different from the way i always text him so at first i have my doubts,told myself it couldnt be my husband,maybe it was his friend cause the number is not saved so i asked him and he act all stupid with me. So i asked him again after i put in the number on my phone then i know who it was so i told him not to lie and he told me that he had a relationship with her when i was pregnant with my first son. He told me it was only 2-3 days after that he end things with her. Im not dumb so i told him im calling the girl up to ask her and when i did she told me they had a relationship for months up till i'm about to give birth from around september 2020-november 2020 and they had gotten intimate quite a few times,she send me videos of them together talking after sex and he asked her if it was good and she was smiling and touching him,sends me conversations of them and pictures of them together,kissing and hugging all the while i was at my parents home heavily pregnant and insecure about myself. It kills me seeing him so happy with her. They were also talking about me how she's jealous he was spending almost all of his time with me etc. I broke down cause i was nothing but faithful to him,i trusted him and ignore everyone who told me not to be with him. He insults me throughout my pregnancy claiming i have another man thats why i have a child and my son couldn't be his. All the while he's the one being unfaithful. My heart hurts and the more i look at him the more i think about it. Eventhough it didn't happen when we are married it still hurts and when i think about it he did act suspicious throughout our relationship and i kind of knew about their relationship but i didnt want to believe it cause i trust and love him. What hurt me the most is that why must i found out now that we are married,why not before i give birth?i look at my son cause he came to me when i was crying,holding me and trying to comfort me eventhough he dont understand anything and i feel guilty. Him and i we went thru alot during my pregnancy with him. I cried alot thats why i think he had that bond with me. I decided to stay although i dont know if thats a good decision for me now that i have two kids with fear he would do it again. He told me he wont but i dont know...its just mentally f***** me up.

If for me, I will leave him. You don't know when this will happen again behind your back. It's eating you up every single time if you think back about his cheating history.

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I am really really sick of having to be fighting for my feelings when it comes to my own pregnancy. My first pregnancy and I'm not married however me and my partner stayimg together. My partner's mother is always seeking for attention and creating such problems that her son is not talking to her or visiting her that often and causing me and my partner to have so much of arguments because she sometimes blames me for taking her only son away from her. Now that I'm pregnant she wants to follow for my appointments and I really just need my partner there and ended up in an argument with my partner where he said I am ungrateful for not letting is mother follow. Seriously I am so furious and upset that he puts his mother feelings over mine when it comes to my pregnancy. I am the type of person who does not go out or have any close friends and have no one else to talk to. I just feel so sick sometimes and depressed.

Go your appointment alone. To prevent more stress, why not call babes hotline?

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Different behavior at home and outside.

My baby behave very differently at home and outside. She is aCtive and loud when at home. And cries more too. However, She is very quiet and well behave when friends and relatives came to visit. Going outside also, she will clench her fist and stay very still when being carried or in stroller. Ha ha... seems so nervous when seeing unfamiliar things. Jus curious, any mummies also observe this behavior.. please share. =)

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Tv with baby in the room

What’s your stand on watching tv with a baby in the same room? When did you start watching tv with the baby around? Do you pick the shows so that the baby doesn’t pick up any negative wording or picture? Are you worry about the TV radiation and blue light? Please share your thoughts. Thank you.

Since 2-3 months old cause I live with the in-laws when she’s younger. My fil watches tv all the time but I will instruct them to face baby towards them instead of the tv while they are watching. Around 10 months old, I let her watch Ms Rachel and YouTube kids when she’s 1 year old. I introduced screen time early as I’m the main caregiver (she doesn’t goes to school) and I need to get things done while watching her. As of now (18months), she picks her own videos on youtube kids (usually youtube kids shows the recommendation of what she usually watch, so it’s usually the same old videos). So far no negative videos on the app and she doesn’t know how to press to other app. Most of the time halfway thru she will leave the videos on then go and play her toys while listening. She can follow hand signs shown and sing along some of the songs as well. Learnt her mummy and daddy from YouTube too 😅. (I find it awkward to call myself mummy so I didn’t teach her how to call mummy.) No. Because one way or another, radiation is everywhere. Unless you can do without mobile phones, tv, electrical devices which is highly impossible. But I’m also more chillax and lazy kind of parent (I don’t bother to read too much on stuffs like these).

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Do you buy organic food?

I was watching a webinar that shared how much pesticide is in our food and there are 12 foods we should always eat organic. It’s called the dirty dozen. Everything else it’s okay to buy non organic. I am going to start trying this!

Do you buy organic food?

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To go back to work now or later

Hello mummies, I would like to hear your opinions. I am a FTM and prior to this i was working full time. I came back from my maternity leave in March and served my notice period and left work end April this year. I was very sure that i wanted to be a SAHM until my girl turns 18 months or earliest until she turns 1 so i am able to watch her milestones before sending her to school. Currently my girl is 7 months + and i have been offered a part time job, 3 days work week 8:30am to 6pm on weekdays only (Mon, Tues, Fri) for 6 months. I am in a dilemma as i'm not 100% sure if i should take up this part time role now or should i wait at least until my girl turns 1. I have my own personal development in mind but at the same time i also feel guilty of leaving my child for work. My concern is that will it be difficult to find a job if i go back to workforce later on with 6mnths to a year gap in my career? Financial wise is not an issue as my hubby is supportive to whichever decision i make. I do have arrangement for my child to be taken care as well if i were to go back to work.

Hmm honestly, if finance is not an issue, i would stay home until the desired age of my child.

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How to lose postpartum weight

I’ve always been on the skinny side but put on at least 7kg since 12 months postpartum. I’ve tried exercising, went for mummy tummy treatment at wellness centre etc but doesn’t help. I feel so sad when my mum, mil and even aunties commented how fat I was recently. Any advices?

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Contraction Pain

Hi mummies! How does contraction pain feels like? I’m currently 36 weeks pregnant and I just wanna prepare myself ☺️

Feels like a mixture of menstrual cramps and diarrhoea at the same time -feeling is weird and intense like u really need to go poo

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