Go to mum’s place everyday during ML
Just random. Hi mummies with babies, esp newborn, anyone went to their mum’s place everyday or most days when their husband goes to work I gave birth 2 months ago via emergency csect. My first baby. Ive been staying with my in law ever since married and never once stayed over at my mum’s. I also did confinement at my in laws since im staying there. I find myself always thinking about my pain and depression there, im always crying every single day. I was having post partum blues, i hated my baby i hated motherhood, esp when my husband already started working, i cried everytime he had to go to work, despite my in law still at home. Last few weeks i decided to go to my mum’s place every weekday when my husband’s working, my in law also started working but half day. And i realised, i feel happier here, and my mental health is better. I did not cry anymore and started to love my baby? And then i decided and told my husband that i want to go to my mum’s whenever he goes to work, until my ML ends, which he happily agreed. But im scared im the only person that relies on my mum when it comes to caring for baby. Im scared i wont be independent as im always here and my mum’s been a great help. I do most of the baby stuff tho. Just curious if theres any mums out there, esp first time mum, who goes to their mum’s place whenever their husband is not at home. Just so theres a third person to help with baby. #firsttimemom
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I had csect last 7 weeks and my tummy is still quite buldging. How do i know if i have diastasis recti? Ive tried laying down and lift my head while pressing my middle abdomen but i cant seem to notice anything or differentiate if theres any gap. From the pic does it look like diastasis recti? #firsttimemom #firstbaby
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Baby 3mo sleep through the night
3mths sleep thru the night without asking for milk is normal? In the day she keep asking milk every 1-2 hours, at night last feeding will be at 1/2am then she will sleep thru until 9am. I got wake her up before or offer dream feeding she angry lol and refuse milk What should i do? She can tahan up to 10 hours without food🤦🏻♀️ i asked around and none of my friend’ baby like this. I know i shd be thankful right? But worried first time mum here 🫣#advicepls
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