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Any mum did Brazilian waxing throughout the pregnancy? Or in 2nd trimester onwards?

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Yup I did Brazilian waxing with strip till 30th week

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Mummies, anyone know of exercise class in Sembawang or Yishun? Evenings/nights only pls..

U can try find at cc , there are few classes at each cc

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Hi mummies, how do your cope with your confinement? My mum did confinement for me for my no1, it was a terrible experience that we(husband and i) had. She is very strict and traditional. Wants me to wear long sleeves and pants(ok im fine about it) but she doesnt allow me to bathe or on fan especially to slp. I developed rashes on my body and yet she told me that everyone went through that, it is normal to have rashes, after confinement it will go off by itself. I showed her articles frm Eu Yan Sang stating about the myths of not bathing etc, even approach my own trusted tcm clinic sinseh which all the while he is our tcm sinseh since young said that it is ok to bathe and keep myself clean, as long as i dry myself thoroughly after bathe. Also, avoid direct contact with the wind(frm fan and aircon), all these are fine. Yet my mum still denies and said all these are rubbish. I had several heated arguments with her alrd. Now with no2, im stress about confinement again so is my husband. Food wise every meals are the same. No plain water, no fruits no veg(only selected 1 or 2 choices) She nags and nags, i know she meant well but how to survive with her "logic". Ok, everyday my meals definitely comes with ginger with steamed fish and a plate of rice, good times there will be additional 1 plate of ginger with broccoli. Thats all. She cooked the same every meal for lunch and dinner, expecting me to finish all the food. She says no soup, soup bla bla bla like not gd or i cant drink soup. After probably 10days im really sick of the food and couldnt even eat any yet she nags and scolds non stop. Complaining to all her friends and relatives abt hw "disobeying" i am. Then some of her nosy friends will add on to the nagging. I don't know what else can i do or say to change her mind or even negotiate with her. It is really horrible experience on my end. Trustable source and tcm i hav also approached and showed it to her. I am really stress about my confinement than anything else. Her best line is " i also survived, you think you are the only one doing confinement? Confinement is meant to have discipline. Whether you like it or not ok! I am doing for your own gd, you not happy then leave" :( Any advise please

Sigh, I'm gonna be like u. Ftm here. N i know my mom has those tradition thinking. And right now (halfway thru my pregnancy) I'm arguing with her. I tried to educate her that olden days can't shower because they got no heater, can't on fan cuz they got no aircon (I believe fan is more directly blowing). I quit my job and my hub is the only income we can't afford CL. She even ask me only can wash (damp) my hair once a week after first 12 days -.-!!! Sigh.

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Mums, I just found out I m pregnant again - and I am not ready for the second one. I am thinking of an abortion. Any advice for me? What is the abortion process like?

Hi, I think, you should discuss it with your husband as well and act accordingly. Because these decisions if not taken with utmost conviction often make us repent, sometimes, throughout our lives. What process your doctor will follow will depend on which week you are in. It can be done through medication if you are in your early week of pregnancy. Then there is surgical abortion in the second trimester. Please go through the following link to have detailed insight into the procedures. http://americanpregnancy.org/unplanned-pregnancy/abortion-procedures/

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My sil kept comparing my kid with animal. My child is teething right now thus he will tend to "bite" and drool, and her comment is "why do you behaving just like a dog?" When baby smile at her, she says "aiyo u smile like a monkey" or she will say "are u a dog?" She is a school teacher somemore. I jus cant understand!

Don't take it to heart, coz your sil seems not aware of the stages a child has to go through:)

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Hi!!! My daughter is 14 months old n she has not started walking..she used to walk with support but does not without support..

My son is 15 month now and he just started walking..don't worry

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My 6yo daughter is a very fuzzy and extremely slow eater. She dont want to try anything. She ask for something and dont eat it when given. She is suffering from calcium and vitamin D3 deficiency and is taking medicines for that. She has developed white patches specifically on her face. I'm very worried what should i do?

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Hi... I have a 23 months old baby in laws not very supportive... So even today I declined a job offer cos no one to take care of my baby... I am post graduate in English Litt has almost 7yrs of working experience.. writing is my passion, I did many editorial work.. before my marriage I had been very independent and now I want to do something.. I have visited many sites of freelance but I can't get help... Please can anyone of suggest me any good site or idea about how to work from home and earn... Please.

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Is wild wild wet suitable for a 2.5 yo toddler? Just wonder what can she play there and if the water low enough for her to play...

I don't think it is suitable for younger toddler

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Hi everyone How do u all cope going back to work after your maternity? Its been a year since ive given birth and i am still dragging my self to work. This year alone ive taken 7 days of mc. 3 days if it is bcause im really sick and another 4 is bcause i want to be at home with my kid. My husband is always overseas and everytime i tried talking to him about this,he will just laugh it off. i just want to be at home and be with my kid. everytime i will feel sad and bad leaving my kid when im off to work.How do i motivate myself to go back to work? I really need to work as we need the money for the house and expenses.

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Think about this way. Work hard, earn the money. So you can bring your kid for an overseas trip or a staycation! This way you will see the happiness from your kid

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