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I've always thought I am able to handle 2 children when my 2nd child arrived 2 months ago. Things is not not gg well especially I feel I have been very harsh with my 5 yrs old boy recently. While I am trying very hard to bond with my LO , the elder one will start to speak very loud at home and will go disturb the baby when he is asleep soundly. Recently, teacher told me the elder one hit someone at childcare and when I ask him nicely , he is totally not willing to talk about it. He does not have this kind of record in school before. When I talk to him , he will just immense himself into his fav TV cartoon and would not answer or pay little attention to my words. Sometimes , he is rude to my mum too. I am starting to worry about his character.... At few times , he pushed me to my limits and I could not tolerate and swear in front of him . I know I shouldn't be and feel ashamed at myself .Things seems to change a lot after the LO arrived . In the past I have read many parenting books in order to be the best mum I could.But I feel like I have failed just been a good mum after all and I feel so angry with him that I told him I don't love him anymore.My husband scolded me for my mean words and I really regretted. At the same time , I really want to give more attention to the little one which he really needs as an infant . I am torn and feel really tired as I also need to spend time with my elder one on his homework as he will be approaching K2 very soon. I need need some wise advices. Thanks

OMG! Hope u r better now. This is a definite no no. We all understand that the infant needs yr love and concern more but u need to love yr #1 even more. He already know what is love and je used to hv 100% but now he is only getting 50% or even lesser. This is not fair for him. Please spare a thought for his feelings. What i would suggest ia to speak nicely to him and most importantly admit yr mistake and apoligise to him. He will definitely feel better. Engaged him together while i r breastfeeding your #2. Hugged and kissed him more often. He mustn't feel left out or unloved cos this impression will b with him for life. He will think #2 has taken everything away from him. He will hate #2.

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How much to raise a child till university?

I’ve google search but the results varies. Wanna hear from experience mama’s here for some reference point. Kind of worried coz seems like the cost of bringing up a child is really expensive. ?

I reckon about half a million sgd?

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TTC tips for 2nd pregnancy

I’m a mum of a 2 yo. I’ve been wanting to try for a second one but I keep getting negative results. I’m also 30 this year. Any tips or advices on how can I improve my fertility so that there’s a chance to be pregnant again? Is there any supplements that ai can take?

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Not safe for breastfeeding medicine

Hello mummies I took a unsafe to breastfeed medicine how many hours can I start breastfeeding again?

Do call the clinic to double check about this.. every medication is different

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GPS tracker for family

Hi, does anyone know of a GPS tracker is traceable on two phones? Most that I can find on Lazada can only do one tracker to one phone. Thanks in advance.

Try Life360 app! Affordable subscription and can share location with unlimited family members, so both u and ur husband can track on ur own phones at the same time. No need to buy any device, just download and add each other as family. Works really well for kids too when they’re older 😊

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Postpartum high blood pressure / preeclampsia

Hi mummies! Has anyone developed high blood pressure after giving birth and postpartum preeclampsia? Would be great to hear your experiences as it is making me concerned. Thanks! #AskingAsAMom #Needadvice

Yes it happened to me too, developed high BP after delivery which was quite scary. Postpartum preeclampsia is more common than ppl think but not many talk abt it. Please don’t take it lightly ya, watch out for symptoms like bad headache, swelling, blurred vision or chest pain and go A&E immediately if u get any of those. My dr put me on BP meds for a few weeks and it eventually resolved on its own. Just monitor ur BP closely and follow up with ur gynae regularly 🙏

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Husband doesn't give a damn

Today there is parent teacher conference. My husband drove me to the place but he asked me to go on my own. I asked him to go along I will talk he just needs to listen. He just simply said no. So I just went on my own. I told myself is ok. I just live like my husband is dead. I just have a sperm donor cum driver living with me.

So sorry hubby has been so inactive. Have you had an honest 1-1 sharing with him?

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Weight for my lo

Hi all mummies, My lo is 2 years old 2 mths. Her weight is 10.4kg. I’m so worried her as she not gain her weight. She eat well 3 times a day with solid foods, drink formula once a day. Please advise.

how is her health, does she fall sick often or not?

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Endometrial Polyps procedure

Hi ladies, for those who had endometrial polyps, was it done under LA, sedation or GA? Also for private gynae who would you recommend if i have very bad anxiety with such procedures? And what were your symptoms when having polyps? How long was the procedure? Any gynae who can do it without sedation? Your advice is greatly appreciated!

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I haven’t gone through this personally, but a close friend did. She was really anxious before the procedure too, and her gynae spent quite a bit of time explaining the options. From what she shared, the actual procedure was much quicker than she expected and the anticipation was the hardest part. I think it’s worth letting your gynae know upfront about your anxiety, as they may be able to recommend the most comfortable option for you. Hopefully some mums here who have had it done can share their experiences with LA, sedation or GA. Wishing you all the best and sending hugs! ❤️

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