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I am wondering why my wife keeps saying that being a stay at home mum is such hard work. I am not trolling here - but i frankly dont understand. Seems simple enough to me. I have taken care of my kids and home all weekend before and it's definitely no where as stressful as having a job. Our kid is 11 months and is formula fed. We live in a 4 rm flat.

I do house chores and take care of my LO . She’s 14 months old . It’s tiring if I were to compare it with my job . I need to multi task at work , which will cause me to be drain out mentally but taking care of kids and house chores drain me both mentally and physically . The patience you need to have is unimaginable when it comes to getting things done at home with your LO around . They won’t allow you to do things smoothly and you can’t manage them . But I am allowed to work at my own comfort level when I am working and manage things well . I would strongly suggest you to take up the role of doing house work and taking care of your LO and you’ll understand what I meant and you’ll learn from it . If you were to ask me a honest answer , I would rather be at work than be a SAHM/D .

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What was your feeling when you held your baby for the first time?

Unbelievable. So in love and happy

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I have just found out that my wife is pregnant with our third baby. But we are not financially ready (both earn) to have another child. I am extremely anxious. What should I do?

This is a decision that you both need to take mutually. Consult a gynecologist if you don't want this baby.

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Do dad's get to name their child or is it more mum influenced? :)

Mostly mommy! 😉 But it depends on the traditions and relatives too, to decide who will make the choice of the name.

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I am absolutely fed up of being the sole bread winner in the house. The kids are 7 and 9. I am frustrated that my Wife keeps saying she needs to not work and stay at home to take care of the kids. The kids go to school and we have a part time maid who comes in twice a week. How do I get her to go back to the workforce instead of sitting at home and spending all my hard earned Money?

if you are worried that she is spending your money unwisely, maybe you can speak to her nicely and help plan better. sometimes, she may not be aware that you feel this way, and if you discuss it openly with her, she will take the right steps to check where possible. also, i think the work from home option as suggested by others is also good for now. once the kids are more grown and can be left at home on their own, maybe then she can go regularly to office. till then, she can contribute to the house a little by working from home.

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How to teach kids with more whilst maintaining a good patience level???

Some game to practice self-control

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How do I cast my 4 year old for voice over roles in cartoon channels?

You can look for open castings or go through an agency. A friend of mine had her child in pageants and was subsequently talent spotted by an agency. Opportunities opened up from then on :)

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What is the best thing you have done for your pregnant wife?

My husband took care of shielding all kinds of advices coming our way :)

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Would you work long hours and weekend to earn more/secure ur job or spend more time with your children but earn lesser? Would that make you a lesser dad?

spend more time with my kids and earn lesser. and i will adjust my lifestyle accordingly.

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Where can I order flowers for my wife online that's also really cheap?

Kenny Groceries!

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