Birthclub: August 2022

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Thinking of abortion

My toddler is now going 3 years old. But current my marriage is having issue but we did not acknowledge it. Past 3 years I feel lonely and ignored by my husband. Only recently, we started to try just for the seek of having another baby. In law also giving us pressure to have another kid so my son won’t be lonely. We went through IVF to conceive my son. It was a very difficult journey that create unhappiness for us due to the stress we went through for infertility. We didn’t had much less than 1 sex a month some months we cannot be bothered to try. But last month we did once and I found out I got pregnant in April. Now is about 6 weeks and my husband don’t seem to be happy. He is traumatized about how unhappy after we had our son. With a lot of unhappy reasons as much as I want to keep this baby. I foresee we won’t be happy and might break the marriage and I think I should just abort the baby. I felt irresponsible as a parent as we are not loving parents. I know I will regret and guilty for the rest of my life but at least I don’t break my marriage and maintain a friendship with my husband for the seek of my son. Does anyone encounter the same problem and choose abortion?

I would not abort it because I don’t want to be guilty and regret for the rest of my life. Having another child whom I will love dearly is a blessing. Are you sure your marriage will still be safe even after abortion?? You must know where the problem lies with. It does not lie with your baby. You and your husband choose NOT to acknowledge the issue (which you have mentioned above). Both of you choose to leave it like that which everyone should know this can affect marriage or relationship and it will accumulate. So even if you abort it, your issue still stays in your marriage. If your marriage still fails after that, you will ended up guilty, regret and broken marriage. I believe all of us are adults here and should know how to handle problems responsibly and maturely. Solve the issue. All the best.

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Managing 2 kids 3 yrs apart without helper

Hi Mummies, wondering if it if possible for full time working parents to manage new born and a 3 yrs old toddler without helpers? Have anyone been through this and able to share your experience on how to manage daily especially at night time?

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i doubt but hope others will share positive experiences

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Planning a vbac

Hi mommies, im with a private gynae and have had a csection in aug 2022, currently looking to do a vbac for my second due in May 2025. The reason i had to csection previously was because my labor fail to progress beyond 4cm. Now my private gynae insist i do a csection for my second however i do want to try for a vbac as i have a toddler to care for and wish for a fast recovery time.. Any recommended dr in kkh for vbac? And any vbac mommies here? #vbac

someone I knew had a VBAC under gynae Qi Mailin from KKH it was successful.did you have induction first delivery or labour came naturally?I'm also facing same situation where private gynae is suggesting C section.Personally I would rather wait for labour to come.from my understanding VBAC tends to be more successful if labour comes naturally than induced

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How to lower babygirl jaundice and have her drink milk faster? Babygirl can take up 1.5hrs for 60ml.

Worried and overwhelmed mummy here.

I lower my baby’s jaundice by giving breast milk and vitamin D.

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When did you all go to poly to check amd get the hospital appt?

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Emotionally and mentally stress

38wks pregnant w 2 yrs old toddler. Im struggling with daily sciatica pain on my right lower limp since my third trimester begin. I couldnt care for my toddler well when she needs me. I cant move at all. On and off bed has been a struggle. Tears hasnt been foreign for my eyes everyday. This 2nd pregnancy hasnt been easy for me physically, mentally and emotionally. Going to the dr, its always normal is their answer. ,😭😭😭

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Attachment to toys

Hi mummies, I just sold a ride on toy that my elder already outgrown and it's taking space in the house. I have a younger baby who is 21 months old. I decided to sell the toy as I checked with my elder and he doesn't want it. I had wanted to keep for my baby but my baby development is way slower that my elder. At 21 months old she still doesn't know how to ride on and play other toys (mostly throwing toys and biting them). I couldn't stand that I'm keeping toys (those bulky baby toys) waiting for my baby to know how to play them but don't know when she will know. Also I felt this ride on is more for boy. However now I regretted as my baby girl seems to like the ride on based on my 6th sense as when the ride on is still at home, she sometimes showed interest in it but mostly it's just a white elephant. In short, I sold the toy out of frustration. I know I can't get it back as it will be awkward to contact the buyer. If I buy back the same ride on from other sellers in carousell, the feeling is not the same too as that's not the ride on that my elder grew up in. How do I comfort myself for this reckless "mistake" I made? Or am I thinking just too much? Thanks

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How to conceive a baby ? How to get pregnant ?

Just wanna know how do I conceive a bby after having a kid for 1 year and a half will it be easier to get preg ? Cuaze I n my partner tried but keep negative I wanna give my kid a sibling But my partner is not the father of my kid is the stepdad he is very good to my kid very loving all is there any way to get pregnant easily

How to conceive a baby ? How to get pregnant ?

Eat healthily and properly, take folic acid and visit the doctor to have a thorough check and get useful tips from specialists.

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Does any mummy here know what is this white spots/patches on baby’s chest/neck?

Hi mummies, my baby is 1month plus and i found out she having these white patches around her neck and chest area. Brought her to PD and polyclinic and the doctor can’t advise what is this and only told us to keep these area moisturised. Can any mummy here advise me? first time mom here and im quite worried as it seemed to be spreading.

Does any mummy here know what is this white spots/patches on baby’s chest/neck?

My 2 mnth old baby have these same issue in her neck and back. It seems spreading. I dnt knw how it happened. Can any one tell me what it is and its cure? Will it go away naturally? Should I consult a skin specialist? Pls help me.

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