Birthclub: July 2023

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App Tracker Issue

Is it just me or the tracker function of this app hasn’t been working the last few days? I couldn’t record sleep or diaper changes at all. I always get the “oopsie something went wrong” message and nothing gets saved.

Oh that's so frustrating, I would be annoyed too if I couldn't track properly. Have you tried uninstalling and reinstalling the app, or clearing the cache from your phone settings? A few of us mums had the same issue before and that usually sorted it out, but if it keeps happening you might want to contact their support team directly because it could be a server issue on their end.

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Week 19 pregnancy

Woke up and feel that whenever i try to walk straight line, I will start to walk towards my left side or right side. Anyone experiencing the same as me?

Oh yes, a few of us in my mum group went through something very similar around the second trimester, the wobbly walking feeling is actually more common than you think! It can be due to hormonal changes, increased blood volume, or even pressure on your inner ear, all of which affect your balance. What some of us found helpful was making sure to get up slowly from bed or a seated position, staying well hydrated, and not skipping meals to keep blood sugar stable. One thing to watch out for though, if the dizziness comes with swelling and high blood pressure, that's a red flag worth taking seriously as it could point to something like preeclampsia. Definitely worth bringing this up with your gynae or doctor soon so they can rule out anything more serious and give you the right advice for your situation!

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Isit just selected patients need to go for 7months ultrasound scan? I went for the 5months full scan

Yes, not everyone needs a growth scan at 7 months, a few of us in my mum group were only referred for it when the gynae had specific concerns, like if baby was measuring small, placenta position wasn't ideal, or amniotic fluid levels needed monitoring. If your 5-month detailed scan came back all clear and your gynae isn't flagging anything, you may just go straight to the 8th or 9th month growth scan instead, or skip it altogether if everything looks good. Some of my mum friends who had higher-risk pregnancies ended up doing multiple in-between scans, while others with straightforward pregnancies only had the standard ones, so it really depends on what your gynae recommends based on your individual situation. Best to just ask your gynae directly at your next visit whether a 7-month scan is needed for you, since they'll know best based on your history!

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Hi mommies aside to Haaka for milk let down what brands are similar and as good?

Honestly, a few of us tried the Ladybug Silicone Breast Milk Collector as an alternative, it works on the same suction principle as the Haakaa but sits flatter against your breast, so it's a bit more discreet under a nursing bra during letdown. Someone in my mum group also mentioned the Haakaa Shell Wearable Breast Pump, which doubles as both a passive collector and a manual pump, so you get more flexibility in one piece. Most mums I know found silicone collectors like these pretty comparable to the original Haakaa for catching letdown, though a couple did say the suction base versions feel more secure since they won't tip over easily if you accidentally knock them.

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Hi mom,i would like need some advice there anyone giving birth at Sgh?what need to bring for the hospital bag and isit sgh got provide anything? #firstbaby #advicepls #pleasehelp

Oh congratulations on your first baby, how exciting! I remember when I was packing for my first, I kept second-guessing myself and repacking the bag at least three times the night before, so I totally understand the anxiety you're feeling right now. For SGH specifically, they do provide the hospital gown during your stay, so you mainly need to bring a comfortable set of clothes and nursing-friendly top for yourself on discharge day, plus one complete outfit for baby to go home in. Someone in my mum group mentioned that SGH gives out a baby bag with some curated items for mum and baby, so that's a nice little bonus you can look forward to. For the recovery essentials, do not skip the donut seat, perineal ice packs, and perineal spray, those are genuinely lifesavers in the first day or two after delivery, and tuck in some Tucks medicated wipes as well. Beyond that, the usual toiletries, phone charger, a swaddle, and a small pack of newborn diapers will cover most of your needs. Wishing you a smooth and safe delivery, you've got this, mama!

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Anyone has a friendly cordlife agent to recommend?

Honestly, just ask your gynae directly, some OBGYNs actually recommend Cordlife and can connect you to a rep they work with. That said, do note there are three options here (Cordlife, Cryoviva, Stemcord), so worth comparing before you commit, especially since one mum I know took a loan for the 21-year storage plan and later had issues with the service that really stressed her out. Cordlife does have dual international certification which counts for something, but go in with your eyes open on the contract terms.

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Hi mummies, my LO is 10months. He still wakes up every night to sleep on top of me (for comfort). Sometimes he would cry really loud as if he got scared but will instantly stop the moment i carry and lie him down on my body. What does it mean? Is it night terrors? #adviceappreciated #firstmom

Aiyah don't worry, my neighbour's baby was exactly like this at 10 months, her PD told her it's most likely separation anxiety plus the 10-month sleep regression, not night terrors, because night terrors babies usually won't calm down so fast when you carry them. Someone in my mum WhatsApp group also mentioned all the new skills like pulling to stand and crawling actually mess up their sleep big time at this age, so the brain very "busy" lah. Should pass in a few weeks once the developmental leap settles!

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Induce at week 39 or 40

This is my second pregnancy. My first was a natural labour without induction(baby came around week 39 + 2days). My gynae mentioned that if there are no signs of labour this week, he would recommend induction. At my last appointment, he checked and said my cervix is still closed. I’m feeling quite worried about the risks involved. Has anyone had a second pregnancy where they were successfully induced even though the cervix was still closed?

I had 2 pregnancies, first was natural, second I got induced at 39+ even though cervix still closed. I was worried too, but my gynae did cervical ripening first, then started labour. Took some time (almost a day), but I still delivered vaginally, no issues. From what I understand, quite common for second pregnancy to need a bit of “help” even if first was smooth. If your gynae recommends it, usually means it’s considered safe. Maybe just check what method they’ll use and how long they’ll wait. I felt the same anxiety before, but turned out okay for me.

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Is spinal block or GA better for csec ?

Hi mummies,I am going through a second csec next year . My previous time was via spinal block but I could feel the cut (no pain but got the feeling and the pulling of baby ,quite painful) , next year going through another csec ,is it better if I opt for GA ?Are there any risk ? I am really scared #pleasehelp

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end up did u have ga or spinal block again?

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Pregnancy faint line

Can anyone tell me if you can see a 2nd faint line? Tested again the next day, no 2nd line at all. Should i wait a week to test again?

Pregnancy faint line

I think you can try to test again one week later and read your result accordingly to the suggested timing. Test using your first urine of the day too.

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