Birthclub: May 2027

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Hi! Im a first time mom to be and read alot about drs in kkh vs nuh. Anyone can recommend a female gynae dr and which trimester/weeks should I switch to private (own gynae). I read about dr cassandra cheong. She is also at woodlands health which is very accessible for me! Read about dr suzanna and dr chitra.. but because they are very known.. i doubt im able yo get hold of them. Thankyou in advance ♥️

Both KKH and NUH are solid choices, so it really depends on what matters most to you. KKH tends to have shorter wait times and their team is very efficient, while NUH also has good facilities but can get quite crowded depending on the clinic day. If Woodlands Health works better for your location and schedule, that's honestly a big plus because consistency matters more than the brand name of the hospital. Most mums I know switched to private around second trimester onwards if they wanted a specific doctor, but some stuck with the public system throughout and were perfectly happy. I'd suggest booking a consultation with Dr Cassandra Cheong first to see if you click with her, then decide if private makes sense for your situation.

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No appetite to eat

I used to eat alot. but ever since i got pregnant, Iam always feeling nauseous with no appetite. But i vomit when eat. Anyone feeling the same?

Same. Mine is all day nausea. My doc asked me to eat sweet stuffs if I got no appetite such as cakes to prevent low blood sugar because of my poor appetite

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KKH gynae introduction

I wanna deliver at KKH. Any gynae to intro?

I delivered at KKH with my first and honestly just went with whoever was assigned to me during my antenatal visits, then that same doc was on call when I went into labour. If you want to request a specific gynae, I'd suggest calling KKH's maternity department directly to ask about their process and which doctors deliver there regularly - they're usually quite helpful with that. Some mums also ask their GP or polyclinic PD for recommendations if they know someone who delivered there recently.

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Anyone go checkup at SGH? How was it?

First time mum here still decides which hospital to go.

I went to SGH for my first confinement checkup and found the staff really efficient, though it can get quite packed during peak hours. Both SGH and KKH are solid choices lah, SGH feels more like a big hospital setup with longer waits sometimes, while KKH is quite streamlined since it's fully focused on mothers and babies. I'd say check which one is closer to you and maybe ask your GP for a referral to see which has better availability for your preferred delivery timing, since that matters more than anything else.

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Parents with three kids

Parents with three kids Just took a pregnancy test and it indicates positive. This would be my third kid if all goes well. I currently have two kids under 5 years old. We never planned for a third kid but were open to one. We were actually contented with two kids and didn't know this surprise would come earlier than expected. Feel a little mixed now, excited and yet worried about going through pregnancy at 35 years old! Both of us are working and our kids go to pre school. We are very fortunate that our parents help with pick up and dinner on weekdays. Likely need a helper for this third one - my parents are unlikely to handle a third one. Any tips on choosing a helper for kids and the questions to ask? What are the chores that are delegated to the helper? I'm open with helper taking care of the kid, or baby after three months. Other logistics I need to prepare for? Car unlikely as we are good with train and cabs now, and thinking the third one would just make us go out far lesser. Also any female gynea to recommend? Did not deliver in Singapore for the first two. Thank you in advance.

Congratulations on your third, and it's totally normal to feel that mix of emotions lah. I was 36 when my third came and honestly it went fine, though I was definitely more tired than the first two times. Since your parents can't stretch further, a helper really does change the game at this stage of life, especially with two under five still demanding so much. For choosing a helper, I'd ask about their experience with newborns specifically (can they do night feeds if needed), their approach to the older two (some helpers are better with multiple kids), and be very clear upfront about whether they'll handle laundry, cooking, or just childcare. Some people delegate everything; I kept cooking to myself but had my helper do school runs, laundry, and baby care. It really depends on your family's rhythm. Don't hesitate to ask for references and do a proper trial period. On logistics, honestly you might find you go out more with a helper, not less, because she can hold the fort while you take the older two out. A third stroller seat isn't essential if your helper can stay home with baby sometimes. For gynae, I had good experiences with the paediatrician-referred obstetricians at KKH, and some private practices near the East Coast have good reputations too. Your first two births abroad might mean you have preferences on pain relief or delivery style that are worth discussing early with whoever you pick. The pregnancy at 35 is genuinely fine these days, just book your first scan soon to put your mind at ease.

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Anyone delivered with O&G

Hello everyone, i am doing some budgeting. I am 7 weeks and choosing whether to go private or public. Private is def better, no waiting time and last min appointment etc. If anyone has experience with O&G care clinic, could u share total cost please?

I went private with my first at a clinic in the west and honestly it was about 5-6k total for the whole pregnancy plus delivery, but it really depends on which O&G you see and whether there are any complications along the way. Public at KKH is definitely cheaper (you're looking at maybe 1-2k all in) but yes, the wait times can be longer and appointments are harder to shift around.

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Pregnant..again after 14 years

I recently remarried and at first me and hubby weren’t sure if we want to have another child as we have our own from our previous marriage. But after some discussions, we decided to try and we do want to intentionally have one. As both of us are in our 40s, we thought it may not happened as smoothly. But i guess age is just a number. I am very happy and excited especially since this pregnancy happened at a matured age where the idea to have a child is an intended choice. however, my stepson is 18, while my son is 17 and my second is 14. The gap for both of us to start over is quite huge. I am excited but I’m scared. I wonder how early I should start seeing my OBYGYN. I honestly forgot the process.

Congratulations!! Week 6 or ish can start booking gynea appointments. meanwhile, you can eat folic acid!

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Brown discharge

Hello, i have brown/bloody discharge that is visible on toilet paper after wipe but that doesn’t soak underwear or daily pad. And it is always visible after workout. Should i stop workout?? My doctor already gave me injection and medicine to stop the bleeding. But i cannot image stopping workout. I am only 7 weeks

Brown spotting at 7 weeks that shows up after workouts is actually pretty common, and the good news is it's usually nothing scary, brown blood is generally older blood, which is a better sign than fresh red. That said, I know a few mums who found that their bodies were basically sending a signal through the spotting to dial back the intensity, especially with exercises like running or cycling; one of them scaled back to gentler movement and the spotting settled down within a week or two. Since your doctor's already given you treatment and knows the situation, it might be worth asking them specifically what intensity level they'd recommend right now, some say lighter workouts like walking or pregnancy yoga are usually fine, but your body and this pregnancy might need something different. It does sound like your body's telling you something, so listening to that feels worth it even if it's frustrating. Definitely check in with your doctor or midwife again if the spotting gets heavier or changes colour, just to be safe.

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Amniotic fluid test

Dear fellow mummies, did any of you opt out of Amniotic fluid test? I know this is not a discussion to be made on line. Me and my husband had decided to opt out of it for a few reasons, but the steep cost of the test is also one of the key factors. I guess some part of my heart is seeking assurance.

Hi Mummy, did your gynae provide you with other alternatives?

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High Blood Pressure in early pregnancy

Im in my 40s and pregnant with my 3rd child. I have high blood pressure. I had only recently found out i was pregnant. The age gap between my youngest (2nd son) and my current pregnancy is 14 years. I have visited GP for referral to see an obstetrician. At the GP, at first, the doctor told me he will increase my present dosage, - from amLODIPine Tablet 2.5mg to 5mg). When we were at the pharmacy, the same GP doctor kindly came up to us and said he had switched us from amLODIPine to NIFEdipine LA tablet - 60mg. It was a fast process so I didnt really process everything until later. I know I should trust the doctor when he said that NIFEdipine is safer for pregnancy as compared to amLODIPine. But i doubtful fingers turned to google and the risk is there. I fear mongered myself. Anyone has experience with hypertension/ high BP while pregnant or is in the medical industry? Would you like to share some tips and advice on how i can manage myself?

Hi there, congratulations on your third child. I totally get the worry, especially after Dr Google starts talking at you. Here's the thing though: your GP switched you to nifedipine specifically because he assessed your situation and knows it's the safer choice for pregnancy. The fact that he came back to explain and change it shows he was being thoughtful. But honestly, with high BP in early pregnancy at 40-plus, this really needs close monitoring by your obstetrician, not just reassurance from forums. Please make sure you keep that OB appointment and bring all your concerns with you, including any worries about the medication. They'll have your full picture and can explain the reasoning in a way that helps you feel more confident. In the meantime, try to stick with what your GP advised. I know the fear is real, but your doctor knows your case. The OB will review everything anyway. Take care of yourself, and try not to spiral on Google too much for this one. You've got medical support on board.

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