autism in baby

Recently, I've started noticing some autism-like symptoms in my baby, and it's made me question if my actions might be contributing to this. I often let my baby have a lot of screen time because it keeps them occupied and gives me some time to myself. I thought it was harmless, but now I'm worried it might be affecting my baby's development. I also rarely talk to my baby, thinking they won't understand and that it's a waste of time. I now realize that this might have been a mistake, as I've read that talking to children is crucial for their language and social development. And also, whenever something goes wrong, my immediate reaction is to yell at my baby. I know it's not the best approach, but in the heat of the moment, it feels like the only way to handle things. Oh, if this may add, I've decided not to send my baby to any early childhood programs or baby schools because I thought it was a waste of money. Now, I'm questioning if this decision is affecting my baby's social skills and overall development. Seeing other kids their age developing differently has made me anxious and regretful. I can't help but wonder if my choices are the reason for my baby's autism-like symptoms. I'm feeling a lot of guilt and fear that I've made irreversible mistakes. I'm reaching out to this community for support and advice. Have any of you faced similar concerns? What steps did you take to address them? How did you help your child if they were showing signs of developmental delays? I want to do everything I can to support my baby's growth and development from now on.

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How old is your baby now? It’s not too late to remove screen time from your baby. Baby may cry uncontrollably due to that and you’ll have to stay patient and loving with your baby. Keep giving your baby lots of love, hugs and kisses. Change diaper, shower, or whatever you do with your baby, start describing or sportscasting them so your baby hears them. Talk to your baby with eye contact happily and joyfully and most importantly stress-free. Babies can feel and be affected by our stress easily. Depending on your baby’s age, allow your baby to crawl/move/ jump/walk/run freely in a space that is safe, free of dangerous objects. Allow your baby to explore with their hands, feet, body, taste including sight and hearing to stimulate the brain development. All of the above to be done in a stress free and loving environment. Your baby will improve if it’s really due to screen time and being shouted at etc. I’m glad you’ve thought this through. Jiayou!! You can do this!! :)

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