Ranting about hubby

Just want to rant, I gave birth 7 mths ago n I feel that hubby is not helping me much on taking of LO. His daily tasks are - feed baby (only when I asked him to) - wash n sterilise btls (he can leave the btls out for hrs n wash them 1 shot) - take out trash but nv put a new trash bag (he will give me attitude if I asked him to throw) - diaper change (only when I’m not ard) There are days when I told him to feed our lo while I pump, what I get from him are sh*t attitude. Why do I feel like having a baby makes me hate him so much? It shows his true colour of how selfish he is. Everyday I get less than 5 hrs of undisturb slp and he can complaint to me he hv not enough rest. Both of us working, so what makes him feel I am free to look aft lo.

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Ohhhh I feel you. My husband helped only during the first few months even so he had to be told and will drag his feet to do something. Eventually I got fed up and did everything myself cause whatever he does is not up to my expectations or he will give me s*** attitude as well. Now I don’t even bother asking him, I’ll do it myself. I’m tired too, but to keep my sanity, I don’t bother getting frustrated by asking him to do something he doesn’t have the initiative to do. Although sometimes I just give the used bottle to him and tell him to wash while I go do something else. I also tell my LO to tell him that she’s pooped or want to shower. After a while he does it on the spot. Lol. It gets better when LO is bigger. Hang in there, you can talk it out with him but in general, men are not wired to do household chores or look after baby without guidance from a queen. Treat him like a roommate if he gives you attitude.

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Why do men have that kind of mentality that their role is just to play with lo? 😑