Insecurities during Pregnancy

Sometimes i wish I could stop being a bitch and feeling upset when my hub goes out. He doesn't does that often but I just get paranoid. Deep in my heart, I wished that he wouldnt go and stay put with me. Guess I need to stop behaving like one but it really eats me up.

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How often does he go out without you (not for work) and who does he go out? Frequency and company matters. Examples of situations that I'd say is ok to get upset: - if he was going out every other day - if he is going out with girls - going drinking/clubbing - staying out of the home overnight - does criminal activities - goes overseas for day trip without telling you However, if it is once or twice a month gathering with guy friends/old friends/work colleagues, thats totally normal and healthy. If u want to feel included, ask to be included if u also know the company.

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You are not alone hahahah.. before pregnancy i appreciate my own personal time and space and prefers some time alone. But being pregnant, i got SUPER CLINGY and want my husband with me ALL THE TIME or atleast within my radar and eyesight if not i get super cranky! They say its the hormonal change? But i totally relate to you.. and no la you're not being a bitch. You're just being your pregnant self😅

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I suffered from depression and paranoia before. So especially when I'm on my 8th week and its an empty sac and need to stay positive till my next check up to see whether baby is hiding, is definitely not a positive week at all. I do the same feeling negative all day long whenever away or with him. I can't shake that paranoia feeling too no matter how hard i try.

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5y trước

Sorry cn i ask is it via ultrasound check or tranvaginal scan? Because i am 9 weeks now and scared to check with doctor.

I was like this as well, argue everyday becuz he lie. Even brought me along for work sometime until i start to feel uncomfortable. He even throw me in sg and fly to vietnam when i told him no. Sometime when i get paranoid i just f*** up upside down left right and i engaged a lawyer to divorce and that when everything change a bit

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Feel you babe! It’s probably the pregnancy hormones.. I felt the same too and still feel the same every now and then. Perhaps talk it out to your hubby. Let him know how you feel too.. We still ought to get reassurance every now and then.. :)

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Talk to him, tell him how you feel and admit your paranoia to him and tell him that you didn't want to feel this way, but probably its the pregnancy hormones that's affecting you now. He will understand.

I was like this as well. And we even argue everyday just becuz i am paranoid. He even throw me in sg to fly to vietnam when i’m in my 30week for god know why he wanted to go there.

I'm like that for my two preg. 1st preg was more serious.. and I had even dreamt that he has other woman... always wish hes within my radar and doing things that will please me...

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If he doesn't go out often it should be ok, sometimes they just need some space , everyone does...you should try and go out with your friends too(:

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Hi, I have this situation before giving birth. I always feel lonely etc. But these days will gone soon. I feel so much better after bb was out! (: