Sometimes I feel like I am a lousy mother. Is it normal?

we are all lousy at times, especially with so much multi-tasking and planning that we do for the home, the hubby, the kids and work. don't worry. we all have those off days when nothing seems perfect, but you already know you are a fab mother and a fab wife when you see your happy family :) just take things a little less seriously and enjoy some stress-free moments.