SIL? CUZ? BRO?

Hey mummies..just letting out. Eversince the start of my pregnancy is been stressful fr me. Both my brothers gt married frst and decide to have child after house and everitin, well i totally support them in anw. I am 5mths now and till this day my SIL refuse to talk to me as i gt pregnant after few mths of marriage. I am happy even tho is hard to believe. My brothers cant care abt me cos they dnt wanna hurt their partner which i totally understand. Sometime i feel is becos me being pregant they cant talk to me. None seen my scan and none ask me hows baby and me and even none asking the gender. How can i move away frm this? I dnt wanna think abt it everyday..#advicepls I wanna get out frm this feeling blue. Any tips??

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Hi, don’t have to be bother by them. They are the one that plan to start a family after getting the house. Why they have to be “jealous” or even “unhappy” about it? If they can’t share the joy with you, I believe all your other friends are happy for you. Is not easy to get preg as and when you wish. Take it as a blessing and joyous occasion for you. Have to stay happy as your mood will affect the baby as well. For me, I do have family member stirring s*** during my pregnancy and on happy occasion as well. But my hubby will ask me to ignore them as what matters most is you, your hubby and the baby inside you. My advice is, lesser contact if possible as this will trigger your emotion. For me, I did it this way to avoid being emotional during my pregnancy. Try to watch some drama or find something to do. You can think of what stuffs to get for your baby since there’s sales now. Anything, you can chat with me. My IG: stainlessjo 😉 cheer up

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