Mummies, currently have 3 kids and now preggy. Currently working and next year i will be resign my job.due to some reason want to leave the my company. Now i thinking should i find job or stay at home look after kids? I want to hire maid when i look for job but my mom told me that maid cant handle 3kids and 1newborn. If i hire maid and my mom help to take care worry she will find problem with the maid.

Is the maid only need to take care the kids or you also expect her to do all the housework? If only taking care of the kids should be ok.but if also need her to do all the housework at the same time i don't think this is possible that she can do everything perfect. Even you stay at home, i do think you also need a full time/part time maid to help you out on the housework. Unless your other kids are big enough to be independent and able to help take care the young siblings.