Moms, were some of you not really domesticated when you got married (couldn't clean/cook/do laundry/etc)? How did you adjust?

tbh, I don't do household chores since I was a child. I was spoiled by my parents then since I'm an only child. I'm lucky kasi partner ko gumagawa ng mga chores. I'm trying to help din minsan. I'm still working fulltime. And since I'm always feeling tired dahil sa work at sa pregnancy nga, di na din niya ko pinapakilos sa bahay. I don't think mababago pa yun pag labas ni baby. Ok naman si hubby na maging househusband and ako ang working at syempre pag aalaga kay baby minus the housechores.

kusa ko lang natutunan momsh, ung pagluluto sunod lang ako sa recipe, paglalaba naka automatic washing machine, pag uugas ng pinggan naka dish washer, pagwawalis eh naka vacuum naman kaya halos wala namang diff more on kay baby lang talaga ko nakafocus, damit lang ni baby kinukusot ko at nilikinis bote niya 😅 sa bahay kasi parang monster nanay ko, ayaw niya may ibang naglilinis o gumagawa nh gawaing bahay, mag aral na lang daw kami mabuti siya na bahala sa lahat 😂

Until now, I really don't cook coz I haven't really tried, I also don't clean due to to my asthma and rhinitis. My husband does almost all the chores, but I am the hands on when it comes to taking care of the kids almost 24/7, plus I am preoccupied with my home based job which starts at 5AM. My husband understands and adjusts to the situation as he knows I am the one much more focused on the kids and earning for a living.

If you don't know how to cook just search it on google, dyan ako nag start hanggang sa matutunan ko na. In terms of paglilinis naman and laundry kung may pera ka may mga technology na tayo for these things para mapadali ang gawain. As for me, binilhan ako ng asawa ko ng automatic washing machine altho i know naman but because of my scolio and para di na kami mapagod both nag invest kami ng AWM.

Nung una talagang hugas lang ng plato alam ko since youngest ako sa family all of the household chores eh sa nanay o sa mga ate ko. Pero nung nagasawa na ko, since i was working in a graveyard shift bumabawi ako sa gawaing bahay every weekend at napakaswerte ko kasi supportive c hubby when it comes sa paglalaba lalo ngaun buntis ako. natuto din ako ng lahat ng gawaing bahay kasi kailangan tlga.

Nag iisang anak ako na babae, hindi din ako sanay sa gawaing bahay, hindi naman kasi ako inobliga ng parents ko sa bahay... Pero unti unti nman ako nasasanay nung nagkababy na ako. Natuto ako maglaba, magluto at maglinis ng bahay.. Wag lang ako pagplantsahin kasi hindi tlga ako marunong pati sarili ko napapaso at na susunog ko yumg damit 😂...

Two things, either u tell urself to try like wash clothes or u get a house help spend at least 6k per month and mag buhay millionaire ka..nice if you have extra cash.. If none.. Well.. Things u need to ponder.. scary din is if the helper treats ur partner better than you.. Kasi can cook, can wash clothes, can take care of ur baby and ur hubby..

alam ko gawaing bahay pero tamad ako before kaya Hindi ako gumagawa sa bahay. . pero nung nag ka baby na.. may urge na mga linis, nkaka paranoid na baka mag kasakit etc. feeling ko lalabas n lng tlga Yung ganung instinct natin.. Kung Hindi lumabas ayos lng Yan.. Basta maunawain asawa mo. samin si hubby Ang taga luto mas masarap sya mag luto.

My mooooooooooom! But you would not believe me when you try her home cooked dishes. When she and my dad got married, she didn't know how to cook even egg! She told me that she and my dad just ate take outs for two months. My dad told her that he can't survive like that forever so he and my mom bought cook books and practiced together.

You just have to get up and start doing it. I was like that before but time passed by and eventually I learned to do those things myself. It may seem hard at first but repetition is the key. I grew up having a yaya and helper in the house, but things changed when I got married.